GuitarGuy7 Posted July 19, 2018 Share Posted July 19, 2018 (edited) Sup dudes, it's been a while. Here is an update of my life, in case anybody wants to read. I moved out of my parents house, and i'm in the process of start a job Woohoo! Since moving out, iv'e really put in effort of going to the gym and iv'e managed to gain 3-4 pounds. I'm not super buff like Arnold or anything, but at least iv'e filled out a little bit. Even though i'm still a kissless virgin, my dating life has made slow and steady improvements. There is this girl in my class that I thought was cute. I saw her sitting by herself and went to talk to her. I asked her out within a week of knowing her and she said yes. We met up outside of class for the first time two weeks ago. We tried meeting up again but her car broke down. I like how when i'm talking to her on Snapchat, she replies back pretty quickly. But I honestly have no idea if she sees me in a romantic light or in a friendly and platonic manner. Maybe i'll tell her I like her and try to kiss her on the next date, that way she gets the picture, and if she doesn't feel the same way, I will cut her loose. I volunteer somewhere and theres this other girl I think is kinda cute, this redhead girl. Next week when I see her, I plan on talking to her and get her number as well. I don't really plan on hanging out much here anymore. This place is a waste of time, I need to do more productive things with my life such as watching porn and sitting on the couch watching Netflix all day Good day Edited July 19, 2018 by GuitarGuy7 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted July 19, 2018 Share Posted July 19, 2018 Congratulations! Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted July 19, 2018 Share Posted July 19, 2018 Hey, GG! Long time no see. Always enjoyed your posts. Sounds like you've made a lot of progress! Glad things have been looking up for you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author GuitarGuy7 Posted July 19, 2018 Author Share Posted July 19, 2018 Hey, GG! Long time no see. Always enjoyed your posts. Sounds like you've made a lot of progress! Glad things have been looking up for you. Thanks, Well I still got a ways to go before i'm considered the ultimate "ladies man", but at least I got a date. You gotta start somewhere right? I think the older I get, the less I care about wanting someone. Probably a good thing. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted July 19, 2018 Share Posted July 19, 2018 See? Change works! Now, don't TELL her you like her. Just kiss her already. Telling because you want some guarantee she likes you back is unattractive. All you have to do is take her out again, act like a gentleman, have fun, pay for it. Maybe hold her hand briefly once to see if she likes that or flinches. If she doesn't flinch, when you drop her off, just kiss her quick on the mouth and say goodnight and you had a good time. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted July 19, 2018 Share Posted July 19, 2018 Don't kiss her until there's palpable chemistry. The chemistry feels like a kind of heat between you which draws you in. Nothing worse than a guy trying to kiss when there's no chemistry. But good for you in getting out there - great start. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Chris2016 Posted July 20, 2018 Share Posted July 20, 2018 Oh man, GG7, you're part of the cool kids now! I want to part of the cool kids! Link to post Share on other sites
snowboy91 Posted July 20, 2018 Share Posted July 20, 2018 Thanks, Well I still got a ways to go before i'm considered the ultimate "ladies man", but at least I got a date. You gotta start somewhere right? I think the older I get, the less I care about wanting someone. Probably a good thing. I think you're realising you can be fulfilled without necessarily needing a romantic relationship. Which oddly helps you find someone, because by focusing on all of the things that give you enjoyment out of life, you come across to others as a more interesting person. And you don't need to be a "ladies man". You've just gotta be a man - ie. be you! And even if one (or both) girls become platonic friends, so what? You've still got another great person in your life. Link to post Share on other sites
Mysterio Posted July 20, 2018 Share Posted July 20, 2018 Guitar Guy. I don't think there is anything wrong with all the guys here looking for love and even the women. I think its more that in todays world. Romantic Relationships are not cut and dry and it more about stumbling into them. Than conscious intent. My ex could not find a lasting relationship and wants to have a kid. So she is pregnant. Its most likley through artificial insemination, which she was looking into. Although I don't know this to be true as we have not talked about her pregnancy. The bottom line is to be sociable. Thats the key and Friends/Romantic Prospects will come in and out of our lives. Link to post Share on other sites
Mysterio Posted July 20, 2018 Share Posted July 20, 2018 Thanks, Well I still got a ways to go before i'm considered the ultimate "ladies man", but at least I got a date. You gotta start somewhere right? I think the older I get, the less I care about wanting someone. Probably a good thing. I don't know why, but from my observation. The more you come off as not caring. The more women seem to be drawn to a man. The man that is making a obvious effort at least 90% of the time. That woman won't be so gung ho on him. I get more attention romantically when it happens. When I don't care. Link to post Share on other sites
ElKay Posted July 21, 2018 Share Posted July 21, 2018 I don't believe this is a waste of time and I feel like you'll be back here as soon as you experience a speed bump in dating. We'll accept you back regardless. Link to post Share on other sites
Gretchen12 Posted July 21, 2018 Share Posted July 21, 2018 I don't really plan on hanging out much here anymore. This place is a waste of time, I need to do more productive things with my life such as watching porn and sitting on the couch watching Netflix all day Good day I can give relationship advice here and watch porn at the same time. Multi-task. Link to post Share on other sites
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