ThreeRainbows Posted August 4, 2018 Share Posted August 4, 2018 He’s just text me saying he’s in a dodgy situation can I order him a cab. Please say no. This guy is using you for money. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author gracey123 Posted August 4, 2018 Author Share Posted August 4, 2018 I’m ignoring it he’s text me begging me. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author gracey123 Posted August 4, 2018 Author Share Posted August 4, 2018 I know it’s pathetic but I can’t bring myself to block his number in case he wants to try again. He’s blocked on everything else Link to post Share on other sites
JP92 Posted August 4, 2018 Share Posted August 4, 2018 I know it’s pathetic but I can’t bring myself to block his number in case he wants to try again. He’s blocked on everything else That's the last stage and the hardest stage. You just know one day you'll get a text with them realizing their mistake. I handed my phone to a friend and had him do it for me because I was too weak to do it myself. I spent so many days after the BU checking my phone hoping her name would appear with a deep apology. I knew I had to stop doing this because the false hope was setting me back mentally. Funny enough, she texted me on a friend's # and must have figured out she was blocked but I was fed breadcrumbs. Letting go of the hope is the hardest part. Stay strong. Link to post Share on other sites
Author gracey123 Posted August 4, 2018 Author Share Posted August 4, 2018 I am open to reconciliation but I can’t keep seeing texts off him. Idk what to do. Like do text messages come through when the numbers unblocked Link to post Share on other sites
Author gracey123 Posted August 4, 2018 Author Share Posted August 4, 2018 Hi friends. Well I blocked his number after he accused me of lying about stuff so he couldn’t use my paypal. If he wants to contact me he’ll have to find a way. I’ll update this thread if he ever says he wants to try again. No doubt I’ll need advice. Link to post Share on other sites
ThreeRainbows Posted August 5, 2018 Share Posted August 5, 2018 Good job, Gracey. Link to post Share on other sites
Author gracey123 Posted August 6, 2018 Author Share Posted August 6, 2018 Still feeling good. Back at the gym and NC. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author gracey123 Posted August 7, 2018 Author Share Posted August 7, 2018 A down day. I wish he’d text me. Link to post Share on other sites
CantTakeMySmile Posted August 8, 2018 Share Posted August 8, 2018 A down day. I wish he’d text me. He can't text you Link to post Share on other sites
Author gracey123 Posted August 8, 2018 Author Share Posted August 8, 2018 As always. After 4 days he has messaged me on an old Facebook account asking if he can please use it to sell stuff. I’m not replying. Just don’t get why it’s on a 4 day regular Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted August 8, 2018 Share Posted August 8, 2018 If he wants to sell stuff he can create his own paypal account. You stay strong. Link to post Share on other sites
Author gracey123 Posted August 8, 2018 Author Share Posted August 8, 2018 I just don’t understand. Is it an excuse to talk to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Whodatdog Posted August 8, 2018 Share Posted August 8, 2018 No he wants to use you. If you want him to change, then it isnt him you want. You dont mold people into what you want, you want them for all their good points and faults. You dont want him. Link to post Share on other sites
Iris The Butterfly Posted August 8, 2018 Share Posted August 8, 2018 Wow. What a mess. I’m sorry you are going through this. Soon you will be glad you blocked him and no longer will wish he would text you. The true colors have revealed! He’s a user and a loser. Good riddance! Link to post Share on other sites
Author gracey123 Posted August 8, 2018 Author Share Posted August 8, 2018 I just don’t understand it. How can he use me when I haven’t give him anything in ages Link to post Share on other sites
ThreeRainbows Posted August 9, 2018 Share Posted August 9, 2018 With all this asking you for money, he sounds like a classic addict. Are you aware of any addictions/alcoholism with him? Link to post Share on other sites
Author gracey123 Posted August 9, 2018 Author Share Posted August 9, 2018 With all this asking you for money, he sounds like a classic addict. Are you aware of any addictions/alcoholism with him? He smokes weed and takes cocaine sometimes Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted August 9, 2018 Share Posted August 9, 2018 Block all avenues for him to contact you. Don't leave any trail open. Why would you possibly miss this jerk? Link to post Share on other sites
ThreeRainbows Posted August 9, 2018 Share Posted August 9, 2018 He smokes weed and takes cocaine sometimes As long as he is using cocaine, he cannot relate to another person. Not in any healthy kind of way. People use to avoid having to deal with their feelings. This is why when someone is sober, they can be kind and loving, and then when they are using they can be a totally different person. If I were you, I would make a boundary. No contact until he is clean (if that ever happens). People who go through recovery programs do reach out to people they have hurt, so you would know. Link to post Share on other sites
Author gracey123 Posted August 10, 2018 Author Share Posted August 10, 2018 I went out last night got drunk and cried. Hearing how perfect my friends lives are didn’t help. Sigh. Link to post Share on other sites
guest569 Posted August 10, 2018 Share Posted August 10, 2018 I went out last night got drunk and cried. Hearing how perfect my friends lives are didn’t help. Sigh. Im sorry you're struggling today reading your thread, there are ups and downs but it is so beautiful to see you get stronger and stronger. Have your friends been supportive? It's OK to be sad and have down days but it's good to see you keeping on with things and doing things that make you happy and help you feel better like going to gym. Nagging you for money so he can buy weed and heroin. This guy sounds like a real winner. One day you will look back and be glad about this. Doesn't help now, I know that. I understand that you still have hope, i get it as I am the same no matter what my ex put me through. Link to post Share on other sites
Author gracey123 Posted August 10, 2018 Author Share Posted August 10, 2018 It’s horrible. I miss him so much Link to post Share on other sites
Author gracey123 Posted August 11, 2018 Author Share Posted August 11, 2018 Today he used my bank card online. He said he did it because he was stranded and he’s sorry. He asked what I’m up to. I wish I could be strong Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted August 11, 2018 Share Posted August 11, 2018 I'd be at the police in a heartbeat, please cancel your card and get a new one and remove all ability for him to use you. Also change all your passwords to all the accounts he has access to.. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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