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To hear when someones texting while they talk to you on the phone? I am pretty sure I heard him (my bf) texting when he told me to hang on a sec. He didnt tell me what he did, I didnt ask (didnt want to seem nosey). Now I cant help but wonder if hes got someone or many women on strings and if Im just one of em? Ugh... I hate thinking about it! I can't do anything but trust him, but he's hard to trust.. he's cheated in the past.

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bluechocolate

I don't see any harm in asking him who he's texting, if that is what he was doing. He's cheated on you in the past, he should be more than willing to prove his honesty now.

 

But honestly, he's a b/friend, maybe you should ditch him before he becomes a husband.

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I have no proof that he's ever cheated on ME.. I know he cheated a loong time ago on his ex. He told me he regretted it though, I honestly believed he would never do something like that again, but who knows! It is a LDR and so sometimes I worry about him having someone else. He's told me nothing else is going on in his life but work. If it happens again I will def. ask him who he's texting. Thanks!

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I have no proof that he's ever cheated on ME.. I know he cheated a loong time ago on his ex.

 

Slightly different then, but only slightly. The fact that it's a LDR makes trust even more of an issue. You should talk to him about it. People can be honest about their feelings & insecurities without resorting to suspicion & jealousy.

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I have no proof that he's ever cheated on ME.. I know he cheated a loong time ago on his ex.

 

Slightly different then, but only slightly. The fact that it's a LDR makes trust even more of an issue. You should talk to him about it. People can be honest about their feelings & insecurities without resorting to suspicion & jealousy.

 

You are absolutely right, I'm going to talk to him about it tonight! Wish me luck. lol

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