When Married Women Give Me Their Phone Number on the d/l

[alistoga]

This is happening more and more often. It's women of various ages, not just the young ones. But also married women in their 30's and 40's as well.

 

I don't have to ask for their numbers they volunteer their numbers.

 

Sometimes, right in front of their husbands.

 

Why do married women have so little respect for their husbands?

[glows]

Perhaps it's the crowd you keep, alistoga. Either that, you're only seeing one side of the story/population with a one-sided perspective. Did you grow up with one parent only?

[smackie9]

Various reasons...open marriage, cuckholding, swingers, their marriage is sexless, etc.

 

 

Not all marriages are monogamous and this is by choice.

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

Perhaps it's the crowd you keep, alistoga. Either that, you're only seeing one side of the story/population with a one-sided perspective. Did you grow up with one parent only?

 

What in the world does that have to do with it?

[d0nnivain]

Whey these women behave the way they do is of no moment to you. Don't take the number or discretely throw it out later. You know what their ethics & morals are. Why go there?

[alistoga]

Whey these women behave the way they do is of no moment to you. Don't take the number or discretely throw it out later. You know what their ethics & morals are. Why go there?

 

So I should make a scene and tell them no? LOL I think that'll go over well.

[OatsAndHall]

Hell, at least they're honest enough to fork over their number in front of their husbands. In the past year, I met two women who hid their marriages from me. Thankfully, I figured it out before actually following through on our plans to meet.

 

 

 

I met one while shooting pool one night; I asked her if I could buy her a drink, she accepted and we spent two and a half hours shooting pool. We exchanged numbers and she texted me the next day asking if I wanted to meet for dinner. I told one of my friends about it and he clued me in on her being married. He's friends with her on Facebook and showed me her profile.

 

 

I met the other via OLD and she agreed to a date. But, I knew I recognized her face from somewhere so I did some digging on Facebook and we had friends in common. Her profile page was visible to "friends of friends", I pulled it up, it stated she was married and her profile picture was a week old and it showed her, her husband and her son.

 

 

 

I blocked both of their numbers and their Facebook profiles and crossed my fingers that I didn't get a pissed off husband calling me.

[somanymistakes]

So I should make a scene and tell them no? LOL I think that'll go over well.

 

I'm not sure how you take "discreetly throw it away" into "make a scene" that's kind of the opposite of what that means!

[alistoga]

I'm not sure how you take "discreetly throw it away" into "make a scene" that's kind of the opposite of what that means!

 

He said don't take the number.

[Sweetfish]

This is happening more and more often. It's women of various ages, not just the young ones. But also married women in their 30's and 40's as well.

 

I don't have to ask for their numbers they volunteer their numbers.

 

Sometimes, right in front of their husbands.

 

Why do married women have so little respect for their husbands?

 

 

because of feminism

[somanymistakes]

because of feminism

 

So, then, why do married men have so little respect for their wives?

[Sweetfish]

So, then, why do married men have so little respect for their wives?

 

 

Interesting statement. If these men have little respect for their wives and family. Why do majority of men enlist in dangerous jobs and work majority of their lives to support the wife and kids? My friend meets lot of women on tinder and finds that many of them are married or have boyfriends.

 

 

Ironically, I would say most individuals have the intent of respecting each other in a marriage. What I have seen with men is many wives have disregards for their husbands needs while they simultaneously try to produce income for them. Eventually the man becomes disconnected to his wife and needs to fulfill his needs.

 

 

 

Obviously, this can go both ways...but men are more aggressive in finding a way to understand his wife's needs, while women more often to bottle up their needs. What happens often is it too late for the man to resolve the issue.

[d0nnivain]

So I should make a scene and tell them no? LOL I think that'll go over well.

 

If you want to make a scene, make a scene. It's your life.

 

I suggested you be more subtle, but if that is not your style . . . do it your way.

[somanymistakes]

Interesting statement. If these men have little respect for their wives and family. Why do majority of men enlist in dangerous jobs and work majority of their lives to support the wife and kids?

 

Let me roll back the conversation a few steps to clarify because I think we veered off track here.

 

The OP posted that women flirt and give him their number in front of their husbands, and ask why they have so little respect for their husbands.

 

You say it's because of feminism.

 

I ask: okay, then, why do men have so little respect for their wives? I didn't add "when they flirt with other women right in front of their wives", because I thought that was understood given the context of the thread. I don't want us to get yelled at by a moderator for going way off-topic.

 

If feminism is responsible for married women flirting, what is responsible for married men flirting in the same way? That's the question I was trying to ask.

 

There's one easy possible answer here, that being that people in general are terrible and disrespectful, and that feminism is simply encouraging women to be exactly as bad as men always were. But I don't want to put words in your mouth, so I'm trying to see if that was the angle you were going to take or if you had another idea.