bmh Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 I will try to make this as brief as possible. 10 years ago...boy meets girl. They hit it off..are great friends. Hang out, talk all the time etc. his friends all would tell me how much he cared about me and liked me etc but he never made a move so I simply ignored it. This went on for over a year. He finally admits to his feelings... I reciprocate. Things are going well for about a week before he ghost me. Very little contact over the next 5 years. And then he’s back. All is forgiven...we are friends.. both in relationships at the time, eventually it fizzles out. No biggie. Fast forward another few years. He once again contacts me...text all day everyday for almost a year. No feelings insinuated or involved until the last few months. We have the “talk” about seeing where things go...oh yea let’s pursue this blah blah blah. A week later he’s vanished again. I can totally except that when a guy isn’t interested he isn’t interested. But I considered him one of my closest friends, especially over the last year and I’m just at a loss as to how you can treat a FRIEND like this. I suppose looking back he wasn’t a friend at all and that’s a hard pill to swallow. I will give him credit that he did at least tell me he didn’t want a relationship but I was totally on board in being strictly platonic once again. Any ideas on why he would do this?? Link to post Share on other sites
Mrin Posted July 28, 2018 Share Posted July 28, 2018 So... There is a saying. Fool me once - shame on you. Fool me twice - shame on me. Fool me three times - WTF am I thinking 2 Link to post Share on other sites
jessievh4 Posted August 19, 2018 Share Posted August 19, 2018 My new effect: Today I choose life. Every morning when I wake up I can choose joy, happiness, negativity, pain... To feel the freedom that comes from being able to continue to make mistakes and choices - today I choose to feel life, not to deny my humanity but embr Link to post Share on other sites
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