Are clubs the worst place to meet guys? Anyone look down on liquid courage?

[Dodgersfan11]

I use to think clubs were a good place to meet guys, now I realize they might be the worst place. And I'm not talking about the "ballroom dancing or latin dancing" type place, I'm talking about those clubs were its packed on Saturday night, where there are a bunch of 20's plus year olds, the just turned 21 year old parties, the bachelorette parties, type clubs. All I see are a bunch of drunk, hammered guys that basically come up to girls and talk to you because they had too much too drink. I don't know about women in general, but I'm not a fan of drunk guys asking me out anymore. Kind of a turn off for me now.

[preraph]

I never liked an "unfocused" setting like a bar only for drinking. But I spent half my life in music bars and met a lot of people there.

[ElKay]

I've never heard of a quality guy being found there. It tends to be more for hookups rather than serious relationships. Plus, even if you find one there... Will you be comfortable that this is somewhere he might want to continue attending often?

[somanymistakes]

It's a great place to meet people... for a one-night stand, or if you want to get into a serious relationship with an alcoholic.

 

At least, in my experience.

[grays]

It's impossible to hear/talk in those places, so it seems like you couldn't possibly have any sense of the person till after the hookup.

[preraph]

For people who like music, going to bar gigs is a great place to meet other people they have that in common with. And certainly not everyone who goes to a bar is an alcoholic! Nor does everyone who goes to a bar just go to "hook up." If you love music, you go to see a band.

[Kirsty91]

Nightclubs can be the easiest place to meet guys.

 

When I was in secondary school I was chubby I thought I looked ugly, had such a high sex drive I wanted as many good looking men as possible.

 

When I left school at 16 for college I lost my fat and I became proper athletic. Then I found guys were all over me like seriously it was emotionally overwhelming for me to the point I kept getting getting scared I'd probably caught an STD I was getting tested every 3-6 months and yet the results came back clean every single time it was unreal. Yet I kept hearing from people catching infections and diseases while I thought - are they BS'ing or faking it? And then I met my now boyfriend.

[Ms.Jazzy]

If you want a better chance at attracting better quality men clubs/bars are not the place to be.Most of the guys are either tipsy to sloppy drunk trying to have one night stands. Not saying all guys are like this but from my experience these are the type of guys I mostly attract in those settings.

 

Try going to the gym or getting involved in extracurricular activities like get involved in church or take up some kind of class or something. You have a better chance meeting a guy and sparking up someone's interest that way.