DrReplyInRhymes Posted July 31, 2018 Share Posted July 31, 2018 (edited) If they hide communication with an ex lover, it's because they're still hooking up. Why hide it otherwise? Don't believe the bull**** or the crocodile tears. Don't give identifying information on this website. There are sick people out there that will use it against you and literally harass you all day. If they don't introduce you to family and friends, it's because they don't see anything serious with you. That says a lot, especially if you've introduced them to your family and friends and they don't reciprocate. Just because she says she loves you doesn't mean she actually does. They can tell you they are madly in love with you and just be saying it. Actions speak louder than words. Don't write anything to someone you love in anger, you'll only say things you'll regret saying, even if you had every right to be angry. Just because she's sorry she got caught cheating doesn't mean she's actually sorry for the cheating itself. She's just sorry she got caught. Lastly, protect and cherish your relationship if you are in one you want to keep. Other guys will try to take her from you. Find someone who can't be taken from a relationship and love them with all of your heart because that's the person that will have your back when you need them the most. Oh, and one more thing: If they are too weak to leave you, they will force you to leave them. Don't ignore this, just leave them, it's what they wanted anyway. Edited July 31, 2018 by DrReplyInRhymes 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted July 31, 2018 Share Posted July 31, 2018 Those are good lessons to learn :-) Before I gave chances after chances. Now I know if it hisses like a snake and crawls like a snake then 98% of the chances it's a snake and I won't give him a chance because maybe 2% he's a good guy. No more of that. A good man acts like a good man. A man in love acts like a man in love. A man with you on his mind will act like it. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
mrs rubble Posted August 1, 2018 Share Posted August 1, 2018 Never allow anyone a second chance to abuse you emotionally, physically or financially. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted August 1, 2018 Share Posted August 1, 2018 (edited) people are flawed and people are complex...good people can behave badly and bad people can behave well...and that fact is not gender specific.... that all people are good and bad.....BUT...more people have more good than bad....all you have to do is find the good.;....and not concentrate so much on the bad...see potential and goodness...and bring that out in whoever is around you and the bad.....becomes minute..... everyone makes mistakes.....we are meant too,keeps us humble and allows us to accept mistakes from others..... chances should be given about as many as you would like to be given..forgiveness....should be always.....chances and forgiveness.....are not the same....because chances involve consequence and justice and ethics and morals.....forgiveness does not involve consequence or justice..forgiveness is as much for the person wronged as it is for the one who did wrong... most important rule for me personally..... everything is beautiful in its own way and music always has an answer...because music is a gift from god.... you know the song here's the vid and thr lyrics for you to sing it now..:0) Everything Is Beautiful Ray Stevens Jesus loves the little children, all the little children of the world Red and yellow, black and white, they are precious in his sight Jesus loves the little children of the world Everything is beautiful in its' own way Like a starry summer night or a snow covered winter's day Everybody's beautiful in their own way Under God's heaven, the world's gonna find a way There is none so blind as he who will not see We must not close our minds, we must let our thought be free For every hour that passes by, you know the world gets a little bit older It's time to realize that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder Everything is beautiful in its' own way Like a starry summer night or a snow covered winter's day Ah, sing it children Everybody's beautiful… dlinkin off now ...singing of course......with identifying info...yep ...d...e..b...deb.....who listens to ray stevens..hee hee...happy happy joy joy the world needs more puppies and rainbows...and fluffy kittens...thats what i know...25 people disliked the video i chose, the ray stevens song on you tube......1200 people liked it...supporting my hypothesis...there is more goodness in people than bad......deb Edited August 1, 2018 by todreaminblue Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted August 1, 2018 Share Posted August 1, 2018 live each day as if it's your last...because one day you'll be right! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted August 1, 2018 Share Posted August 1, 2018 I've learned that there are very few hard and fast rules in life. What seems like a good rule to me, may not to someone else... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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