Loosing interest in a partner after 10 years of marriage - is it a reason for divorce

[BluesPower]

Indeed sharing some house bills apart from that completely separate budgets.

 

For me there is another woman involved no other way. It is just very difficult to catch him because he is at home all the time, but during working hours no body knows because he does not have to stick in the office as I do. My major issue is that I need to collect all the dignity I have been left with and proceed with the further steps to get away. My only worry is how I will feel on my own.

 

First off, your dignity should... already and continue to be in tact.

 

Here is the thing, Yes, odds are that he is having an affair. And like someone said, he is buying time. She is probably married and he thinks she will leave her husband for him and he is waiting.

 

But like someone said, "I don't love you that much" or "If you don't bother me and talk about our issues it will get better"... what a bunch of hogwash.

 

You should not allow yourself to take that type of ridiculous crap form him.

 

He either loves you or he does not, if not then OK, it hurts but I am getting out.

 

And that is what you should absolutely do...