Whats his ordeal?

[XForeverstardust]

So I met this guy a while back and we started talking and the conversations began to be more intense. We would text A LOT and the conversation would be all lovey-dovey like we were in a relationship and he would respond right away and frequently. We finally hung out and during the hang out it seemed to be going well (he kept non-sexually touching me, hugging me and never looked at his phone). But after this hang out I noticed a change in dynamic and confronted about it he said he was unsure as to what he wanted and didnt have time but we could still talk to see where it goes. After that point the dynamic completely changed from before: much less frequent texts, took a long time to get back, lack of flirt emojis and he stopped liking my pictures. I noticed the change and thought he definitely lost interest so I tried using conversation enders but he still texted and even when I left him on read he would double text.... So I talked to him about it again and he said “I know, i just think it is better for both of us to not go further, because i feel that im really not ready at all”. But than the next day he said "You’re really nice to talk to and i don't intend to stop talking to you." Whenever a guy ignores me, it kills the vibe and I lose interest. So I deccided to be friends with this guy and to show him I was not doing this as a means to think theres a chance or anything I would say stuff like "since we aren't interested in each other anymore..." or "since we chose not to get into a relationship" or "since we aren't dating" and I would call him terms like "buddy" and "fam". Anyways all of a sudden today he starts asking me if I talk to other guys and if he's the only guy i send sexy snaps too and how he wouldn't want them if it's not exclusive and he told me how I am a high standard women different from the rest and the only girl he talks to.... he also started using the cute emojis again and liked my recent post (which he intentionally ignored after we met....). Also he responded really quickly. Why is there suddenly another change in dynamic? Why does he feel entitled to tell me to only exclusively send ONLY him sexy snaps...?

[Kelliousme]

I wouldn't stick around if I were you. It honestly sounds like an emotional roller coaster. One second he's interested the next second it's "I'm not ready for this". I'm guessing either he was interested and lost interest in you after the hang out or he was never really interested in getting into a relationship with you since the beginning and you're just a toy to him. And the sudden interest in you again could mean that he feels he doesn't want you but he wants your attention. So.. stop giving it to him and actually go find a decent man who won't play games with you.