beverly Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 my ex and myself have decided to try again he still staying up his mums but spends most of his free time with me and the children, there are times when i see the same worrys that croped up before but we have to talk these through, but finding the space and the right moment to talk is hard i finshed my bit of councilling and he still got 4 sessions left hopefully this will help him to be able to say what is bothering him instead of leaving these probs niggle away at our future, as we have been togeather for nearly 16yrs i think it would be wrong not to try especially as we get on well togeather when we are on our own, listning to others was one of the things that got between us on his part the information he was given didnt apply to how our family work as all of you out there now that there are not 2 situations the same, we havent told the children yet as we dont want tio build there hopes up so some moments are hard ,but building on the friendship that we have should make us stronger. i did start divorce perciedings and hopefully when the time is right he will ask me to stiop these , Link to post Share on other sites
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