thefooloftheyear Posted August 16, 2018 Share Posted August 16, 2018 Just sounds like he doesn't value her all that much...Not in the marriage, kids, ltr sense... TFY 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted August 16, 2018 Share Posted August 16, 2018 Yes, he did. He even asked me to read it (probably to show that he is right about his decision). And from his point of view all my extra information is not important. I disagree cause when you spend your time, energy and money to move from one country to another to be together I think the last thing you would expect is your guy spanteneously running away to another part of the world. I feel upset that he made a decision without me. So I was just given a choice, I wasn't involved in the actual decision process. I can't go not because I a manipulator. I have the whole list of impartial reasons including visa situation, again money, time, upcoming projects... FTR, I disagree with the accusations of manipulation etc - even before you posted, I didn't think you'd done anything wrong. I agree completely re: the bolded. As you are on a student visa, I assume you are able to complete your studies regardless of your relationship status? I would urge you to break up and go your separate ways. This man is not ready for the commitment you need from him. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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