littlelaxer Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 its about a year now since my ex bf and i have broken up. the thing is that he never fully goes away. he always pops up here and there and thats fine i really dont care to much about the occational stuff but heres what has happened lately. for the past two weeks he has been contactin me just by textes seein how i was doing and such. this past thrusday he called me and we had a good conversation. he asked me to come over and hang out help his friend move in and stuff and that he would take me out to dinner. i was like maybe if u call. he said ok ill call. well then he texted me friday askin me to come to a party at his house. but i lied and said i was already at another party(even though i was in bed alread:p ) he later calls me that night but i didnt answer. the next day he asked where i was and stuff. sat night i was working and one of his good friends comes in my work. he came in lookin for me cause he told me. we had small talk and he brought up my ex saying "*** said the two of ur conversations are getting longer" andi was like yyyeah i guess so not actin like i care. and he was like he told me about ur converstaion and everything i said yeah maybe we will hang out i dont know. he said thats really good. the thing is that it almost seemed like he came in to bring up my ex and see what i would say. his friend is kind of an older guy that he would always tlak to about stuff, like our relationship when we were together and etc. i have talked to this friend of his many times through out this year of our break up and he has never brought my ex up like this. it is just weird how he said our coversations our gettin longer.....any thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
heartnsoul Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 Does sound fishy:confused: How long were the 2 of you together? What exactly happened with the relationship? From what you've said, it sounds as if he may still have feelings and has now gotten the friend involved to do some investigating. Something's definitely goin on though...IMO. Link to post Share on other sites
Author littlelaxer Posted September 5, 2005 Author Share Posted September 5, 2005 thanks for the reply! the two of us dated for a year. he broke up with me saying he didnt know what he wanted and he wanted to be with the guys. really he wanted to party and not have any attachments like a gf. its been about a year since we have broken up too and in most cases the person who broke up with u by now would have moved on and would not be askin the ex to hang out. i just think its weird how the friend brought it up, ya know? Link to post Share on other sites
heartnsoul Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 You're welcome You would think after a year he would've moved on but just maybe he's having his second thoughts! Is there ever really a time frame on when someone can realize the error of their ways?? Do you still have feelings for him?? I can only imagine that the break up broke your heart. I hate to come to any conclusions when I don't have the full picture BUT maybe you should simply ask him next time he phones what exactly his intentions are with you! Awkward, yes, but why not? What do you have to lose, right? Link to post Share on other sites
Author littlelaxer Posted September 7, 2005 Author Share Posted September 7, 2005 so the ex called me earlier tonight but i took my time in callin him back. the conversation went well he asked about my day and what i was doing. then he asked if i was going to come over tomorrow. i said i would he also said he would call me tomorrow i guess to make sure i was commin. so im kind of nervous about going over there. i dont know what to think about all this Link to post Share on other sites
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