GF posts sexy photos

[JealousorNot]

My committed live-in GF of about the past 8 months has multiple webpages where she posts many photos. She loves to have photos taken (mostly by guys who are professional photographers who like her). Many of the photos are sexually suggestive, but none involve nudity. Assuming I give her the benefit of the doubt (I really do think that she has not fooled around, and has been upfront with other guys that we are in a committed relationship). I have never told her that I wanted her to take down the sexually suggestive photos even though she has offered, I have mentioned however, that many guys browsing the internet will assume that any woman who has alot of sexually suggestive photos on her webpage might be interested in hooking up even when she states that she is married or in a relationship. Indeed on her own webpage blog she complains about all the "pervs" writing her, and includes multiple comments from these "pervs".

 

My feeling about all of this is that at best it indicates to me that she loves attention regarding her sexuality. How do others feel about this.

[danny8630]

whats the URL??? im just kidding.

 

She seems like a girl who L0o0o0o0OVe's attention , just like you said. I used to date a girl who wore attention-getting clothes and it bothered the hell out of me but i never said anything because what the hell! i had a gf and was getting some whenever right!. But I could never date a girl who dressed like she did.

 

My thing is that if you consciously care about a relationship, you will dress or act in a respectful manner. You shouldnt even attempt to push any limits.

 

Man, from my experience, nothing if anything will stop her from wanting attention. Its embedded in the brain.

 

And depending on how much she likes you, if she senses that you dont like it and she loves to do it--its just bad news.

 

 

oh and damn, guys WILL NOT STOP at getting to a girl even if she was married, dating, talking to someone--whatever. Guys will never give up because they have nothing to lose, and they hope they will score the chick that is whatever about it.

[johan]

You have to figure she should know all by herself that this would bother you. She should respect that. You shouldn't even have to tell her.

 

The fact that either it hasn't occurred to her or she doesn't care to do anything about it would be a problem for me. Early in our relationship, my ex was both clueless and often didn't care how I felt about things like how she dressed. It was a big deal for us, but she adjusted. But still in the end it was that general insensitivity that was a big contributor to our breakup.

 

You're going to have to be very secure with yourself, because if her site is popular, she'll have a lot of guys approaching her.

 

I say be very wary of a girl who likes to have guys look at her that much. She may never cheat, but she's making it clear that other men are going to be pretty important to her anyway.

[ICS]

My ex once sent sexually suggestive AND topless photos to her guy friends and it bugged the hell out of me. She told me she did it to piss me off because she was mad at me, but still when I confronted her she told me she did nothing wrong. It made me go absolutely insane knowing that she would only dress conservatively but could do something so provocative and controversial with her friends just because she was "pissed off" at me. To this day she never admitted to her being wrong. She also opened quite a few accounts on dating websites, assuring me that she only intends to make friends and talk to them. She semi lived up to her word and never cheated on me but told me that some guy was interested in her and that he was a nice guy to talk to, and they almost met for coffee. However, I stopped her by telling her how I felt about it( she should've realized what she was doing anyways). We broke up after a few months but there were other reasons for it. I hope for your sake that you don't have such a girlfriend. Good luck to you.

[Cecelius]

Run. There are plenty of good quality women in the world whose egos don't need stroking by guys, who are not "Girls Gone Wild" shallow, trashy, easy type women. Yours is working pretty hard to fit into the above categories.