caring guy Posted September 5, 2005 Posted September 5, 2005 Hi all From the depths of 'no chance' of getting back together to now, are a billion miles away. After she saw this other guy, she missed me, she thought the grass was greener, ok i had issues, she sees me resolving them & we're moving forward together. She went away withe her family & said stuff like 'we used to do that, " etc, as 17 months of being together, through some bad times, did make her miss 'us' & the good 'us'. I no longer have drink issues, she sees i'm a totally different person, a partner, emotionaly physically at one, slowly but surely, we talk more of everything, problems, how we feel about everything to do with us & you have to. I'm so fortunate, i know she saw someone else, but she always said my actions would drive her away, i took no notice, but now i can't be as i was & won't be. I'm moving in soon! Cheers No Foolin, the no contact worked!!
jackripp1 Posted September 5, 2005 Posted September 5, 2005 how long nc and was it really NC or was it limited contact.. how did she bring up getting back together/ a call out the the blue>
Drivetildriven Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 That is awesome. I'm glad it worked for someone. I'm going on 4 months right now. I hope to God mine turns out as well too. I hope your relationship grows and strengthens.
vix Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 Caringguy, that's brilliant news! I hope everything works out for you. Keep us posted & good luck.
Author caring guy Posted September 7, 2005 Author Posted September 7, 2005 I just leaft it to her, gave it a week or so, we're shring a house now, both at college & therefor it will improve as we aren't going to be under each others feet as we have. everyone, this happened when all seemed over, so when ever you feel it is over, time can make people think different & NC makes them think, unless you were a total jerk & never deservedc an opertunity. Good luck all
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