Ladies how do you flirt?

[dateme]

When you're interested in a guy how do you show him? Are you just kissing all on him?

[losangelena]

Lol, no? Kissing all on him? The only time I'd ever be kissing up on some dude is if, A) we're dating, or B) we're really drunk. But by that point, it's gone beyond flirting, hasn't it?

[smackie9]

I'm pretty aggressive, In my dating days I chat him up and ask him if he wants to go for a drink.

[dateme]

I'm pretty aggressive, In my dating days I chat him up and ask him if he wants to go for a drink.

 

Cool. This is a good step. Simple to pick up on also.

[Mysterio]

As a man towards a woman. I find myself a bit playful and flirtatious. If I can get her and I in the right state of mind.

[preraph]

All kinds of ways. I like to tailor it to the guy. Probably the most extreme one was I went up to two glammy looking guys at the music bar and told them as I walked on by "Why don't you go swallow razor blades?" Why? Because it's a line from a song I could tell from the looks of them they'd know and love. We ended up all going out on the town and staying out all night.

 

One time I just leaned over on my way out the door and told a guy who the waitress was flirting with, "You can do better." He immediately got up and ran after me. Subtle.

 

On the more normal side, I might compliment them on their hair, the way they sing or play guitar. One guy who was a music artist on a promotional tour was doing the obligatory signing autographs and I said, "I bet you're sick of this," and then he wrote something on my album asking me to go to an interview with him.

 

It's harder to tailor stuff to people if you can't tell anything about them, but I could read the music people enough to know what they probably liked by how they looked. Once I just followed a guy around the record store. Actually, probably way more than once....