Author JiltedJane Posted January 4, 2019 Author Share Posted January 4, 2019 (edited) so to update anyone interested, really I'm just here to vent. I have to take my POS ex to small claims court next week. Before we broke up he borrowed several thousand dollars from me with the promise he would pay me back but always had an excuse why he couldn't that week. I have never felt so betrayed in my life. 6 weeks after our breakup I sent him a romantic letter telling him I missed him and wanted to support him, even if it was only as a friend. I know it was stupid, but i felt our relationship deserved at least a little bit of a fight. I've never done anything like that before, I don't chase, but I convinced myself our love could be worth it. He never responded. I sent him a text asking him to at least let me know he got the letter, again he never answered back. I waited another months and emailed him asking for my money back. No response. Sent a second email, no response. Had his sister talk to him, nothing. Had a lawyer send him a letter- no response. I caved and call his mom on the advice of three different lawyers- she basically told me to go **** in my hat. So now I have to do small claims. I hate having to take him to court, i feel like a psycho. Again, I have never felt so betrayed. I never in a million years thought this man would ever do anything to hurt me. This was the same man who claimed i was the love of his life. I never knew it was possible to love and hate someone so much at the same time. hes made me feel worthless and made me look crazy.I would not wish this pain on my worst enemy. Take it from me everyone- do not lend your SO money for any reason. No matter how much you trust them- people only care about themselves. Also, be wary of anyone with a criminal past or substance abuse issues. In my case- my guy wasnt as reformed as he claimed himself to be. Edited January 4, 2019 by JiltedJane Link to post Share on other sites
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