Moonunit Posted August 21, 2018 Share Posted August 21, 2018 Out of the blue, finally hits me up on Facebook after all these years and tells me her and the baby daddy broke up and now she wants to "bond" with me. Took her on dates, bought her drinks laugh about the past. She invites me in her sisters house, we ''Netflix and chilled''. Next couple of days, she disappers! No call, text, nothing. Why do women do this? You think she coming back? we knew each other since like 7th grade. Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted August 21, 2018 Share Posted August 21, 2018 The question should be why were you so gullible to dive in head first with her? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
CollegeKid101 Posted August 22, 2018 Share Posted August 22, 2018 Out of the blue, finally hits me up on Facebook after all these years and tells me her and the baby daddy broke up and now she wants to "bond" with me. Took her on dates, bought her drinks laugh about the past. She invites me in her sisters house, we ''Netflix and chilled''. Next couple of days, she disappers! No call, text, nothing. Why do women do this? You think she coming back? we knew each other since like 7th grade. You were an emotional tampon. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted August 22, 2018 Share Posted August 22, 2018 The question should be why were you so gullible to dive in head first with her? Exactly. Truth is, I don't know why some women do this. And to be fair, men do it too... But, you fell for it - hook, line, and sinker. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted August 22, 2018 Share Posted August 22, 2018 Out of the blue, finally hits me up on Facebook after all these years and tells me her and the baby daddy broke up and now she wants to "bond" with me. Took her on dates, bought her drinks laugh about the past. She invites me in her sisters house, we ''Netflix and chilled''. Next couple of days, she disappers! No call, text, nothing. Why do women do this? You think she coming back? we knew each other since like 7th grade. We need a little background. Is she your ex? It sounds like she used you for attention and sex when she was on the outs with her kid's dad, but she doesn't need you anymore...probably because they patched it up and she's back with him now. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Moonunit Posted August 22, 2018 Author Share Posted August 22, 2018 We need a little background. Is she your ex? It sounds like she used you for attention and sex when she was on the outs with her kid's dad, but she doesn't need you anymore...probably because they patched it up and she's back with him now. First off, thanks for all the replies. Yes, shes my ex from 7th grade which was about 10 years ago. Her situation was that she came from bad break-up, and wind up homeless with 3 kids, no job, baby daddies out of the picture and now sleeping on a couch infested with bed bugs. Im just upset because -- listen to me guys, I havent been in a serious relationship with a woman for nearly 10 years and you would think well, one day, that one girl will find you - be patient. Okay, She pops up and as Zahara asked me ''why were you so gullible to dive in head first with her?'' well because I thought she was that one. She did say something about how I was easy to manipulate but we were high that night, but it raises a flag that she did this to me for no reason. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Moonunit Posted August 22, 2018 Author Share Posted August 22, 2018 (edited) Im convinced she did used me for attention but come on, thats some serious bad luck. I dont think I can trust another single mother ever again. To you male viewers reading this, Do not, I repeat. Do not trust a single mother with multiple baby daddies, as it broke my heart with a wrecking ball and can happen to you too also. Edited August 22, 2018 by Moonunit Link to post Share on other sites
usa1ah Posted August 23, 2018 Share Posted August 23, 2018 No you just need to get to know them before you start dating or jumping into bed with them. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted August 23, 2018 Share Posted August 23, 2018 She was looking for a little emotional healing, that's it....you were a rebound. Link to post Share on other sites
SouthernIslander Posted August 24, 2018 Share Posted August 24, 2018 I have never used a man for emotional support after a break-up because I dealt with it in my own. If that is what she is doing, 100% of the blame and responsibility for her actions falls on her, not you. You haven’t had a lot of relationships and making decisions that we shouldn’t happens, especially when we don’t have as much experience. The important thing is learning from it so you won’t make the same mistake again. I would count her as a lost and don’t contact her anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
misspalmy Posted September 21, 2018 Share Posted September 21, 2018 guys do the samething. its mean. but least you know now shes not someone your would want to be with, Lots fish in the sea same goes for myself lol Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted September 21, 2018 Share Posted September 21, 2018 old thread....the OP is long gone. Link to post Share on other sites
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