ELWright1 Posted August 23, 2018 Share Posted August 23, 2018 My friend has become very moody....she tells me to call and when I do she snaps almost regularly....also on several occasions she has kept me waiting for up to an hr for her....and even practically kicked me out of her appt when I brought her some tulips just because I didn’t call.....is it me or should I call her out on these things Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted August 23, 2018 Share Posted August 23, 2018 No. You should not ever just drop in on someone. You need to call and ask if they want company first. It's rude to just show up. Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted August 24, 2018 Share Posted August 24, 2018 What a lousy excuse of a friend. Why are you hanging around someone so terrible? And why would you buy flowers for someone with such an ugly personality? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Malin889 Posted August 24, 2018 Share Posted August 24, 2018 If someone brought me tulips I’d be over the moon. The fact that she doesn’t appreciate that says a lot. Link to post Share on other sites
Ronni_W Posted August 24, 2018 Share Posted August 24, 2018 .....is it me or should I call her out on these things It was thoughtful of you to bring her flowers. But now it is time for you to be courageous and initiate the difficult conversation. Be gentle in telling her that you cannot but notice a change in her temperament, and attitude towards you; and ask her, directly, what challenge she is facing, or what has gone wrong in her life. Ask her how you can help. Also, ask her to tell you, honestly, if it's something that you have done (which she may have misinterpreted your intentions and/or motivation). Until you know what's what, there is no point to "call her out" without any compassion or sensitivity from your side. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted August 24, 2018 Share Posted August 24, 2018 If she was always like this, I'd be inclined to ditch her. However, as she's actually changed then I wonder if she's dealing with some mental health issues. You don't mention your gender. Are you male or female? Has there ever been a romantic history or unrequited love going on between you? Link to post Share on other sites
maxi105 Posted August 24, 2018 Share Posted August 24, 2018 hey el/w. its clear something else is going on here with your friend. how good a friend was she before the change? if she was someone real special then you need to talk this out with her and find out why she is snapping at you and let her know that its not on, you still wanna be friends but she needs to get herself together or youre gone. if she is not all that to you and you are just tired of it, then still have it out with her and just tell her you've grown tired of the way she's treating you right now. is there something you should know about because yo wont keep taking this kind of thing. the rest is up to her...and depending on how she is, you will be able to talk, argue and clear it up, feel sorry for her, or walk away and if she wants to come back (or she see's her errors) then she will make a move to put things right. but if she comes back you need to feel its genuine on her part to try and put things right again. if she's not bothered, go spend your time on others who can show you more affection and will appreciate your thoughtful gestures. but like I say, there is more going on, but that doesn't mean you have to be treated badly over and over just cos she clearly has issues! good luck.i hope you can sort this if she is a good person and you care about her. maxi. Link to post Share on other sites
Mrrippey Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 (edited) Delete this post Edited August 27, 2018 by Mrrippey Wrong post Link to post Share on other sites
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