Reading her body language

[cameroona]

Hi guys,

 

I rather like this girl at work but I'm finding it difficult to know whether she is into me or not . We don't work in these are office so our conversation are rather brief at times and in the coffee room.

 

I converse with her now and then but I think at times she may be nervous or not that in to me at all?

 

I had noted the other day that she was on her tip toes just as we were ended the conversation before she left the room .is this a positive or negative sign ? It was fairly noticeable as it was for an extended period of time .

 

Thanks again

[d0nnivain]

Never heard of any significance to being on tip toes. Most women in heels are practically on tip toes anyway.

 

All I see from what you wrote is a friendly colleague. Work place romances are so fraught with danger that unless you are 100% positive, it's best to avoid creating an awkward situation.

[alphamale]

if her feet were pointed towards you that is a good sign. if she makes extended eye contact with you and smiles that means she likes you.

[glows]

On her tip toes? Was there the Berlin wall between the both of you? That's bizarre. Perhaps she needs to see an podiatrist and fix her footwear. Or thinks she's an ostrich or other big bird. If she's wearing heels standing on her toes shouldn't be so ridiculous looking that you'd comment on it.

 

Remain professional around her and get to know her a bit more. Tread carefully in the work place.

[maxi105]

liten, cameroona!!!!! I also have a friend that stands on tip toes a lot and for me it Is something she knows I find amusing ans she laughs along with me when I point it out. but my friend is married and if I thought that evey time she stood that way she was sending out signals to everyone she spoke to or met that she was interested, she would not still be married (well not very happily anyway)!

 

 

listen, you've got to stop reading things into what is likely to be a lot of nothing! body language can sometimes read ok, but as its so know about know it can be manipulated or copied delibereltly without knowing if we get on as friends with folks that we don't think about in that way or for fun, it can be used sometimes to try to manipulate or get people interested that the sender knows they are not really that interested in, in that way.

 

 

if you like her ask her to something, and take things from there. for all I know she may be feeling unsettled because every time she sees you you are trying to make sense out of the colour of her bracelet, whether she moved the coffee cup with her left or right hand, or she's just may not be getting why you are fixed on her feet!!!!

 

 

she doesn't sound the only shy nervous one in this situation!!!!!!! so just ask her.

 

 

good luck, and I hope it is not my friend you are after!!!!!! because if the one in a billion chance you were....her husband would maybe like to study you a little closer too if he caught you studying her in that way lol....

 

 

good luck and don't rely on little games, social norms or body language clues for something that may not even lead you in the right direction.

 

 

good luck. maxi

[FMW]

Maybe she was just stretching out her calves.

[LuckyM]

It means nothing. Maybe her shoes hurt her.

 

Avoid reading into much body language.

 

If she likes you, you will know then. She will let you know.

[preraph]

If you can't tell if she likes you, she probably is no more than neutral toward you.

[Chilli]

yep fully agree.

God almighty if your down to analyzing it just because she's stands on her effg toes ,

If she seems interested just ask her if she's seeing anyone if she's not ask her out.

Worst she can do is say no thank you bla bla

[dranoel]

Don't know much about tiptoes, but there are other basic cues. If she angles her body to be facing your whenever you're in the same room (no matter how far away in the room you are) that's a good sign. If she pivots her body away when speaking, that's a bad sign. Then there's the basic eye contact - she'll avoid eye contact if she's not interested and during conversation try to talk without really connecting. Crossing her arms while speaking with you is a sign she's uncomfortable and creating a barrier. If you notice her posture improves when she knows you're around (arched back, shoulders back, chest forward, booty popping) then that a good sign. If she's slumped and sloppy looking when you're around she probably doesn't care about looking attractive to you. Her voice may raise to sound more feminine. She'll make happy, emotive reactions when you're talking to her.