Author Mr.P Posted October 2, 2005 Author Share Posted October 2, 2005 Ok so I didn't go to the club today, and I've found out that neither did she or her new bf So I could have gone without seeing her at all lol Ahh well, maybe she's doing the same thing I am Pippen - I was kinda hoping that her not seeing me there will spark something off in her mind. I do want her back, but whilst she's being manipulated by him it will never happen. Just wanna do something that will slap some sense in to her! Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted October 3, 2005 Share Posted October 3, 2005 I do want her back, but whilst she's being manipulated by him it will never happen. Of course Drop her, don't stalk her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mr.P Posted October 3, 2005 Author Share Posted October 3, 2005 Day 12 of No Contact........ this is so difficult !! Even though we haven't gone more than a week without talking since our split in July I'm starting to feel the need to talk to her. I've got so much to say as well!! But I'm not going to break NC. I hope she feels just as bad as I do..... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mr.P Posted October 5, 2005 Author Share Posted October 5, 2005 She lasted 13 days before she contacted me. No emotional breakdown by txt this time, just asking if any of us had the number for a really good local band we sometimes went to see (this band were playing the night we got together) I didn't reply, chose to do full NC but I saw her unexpectedly tonight. Every Wednesday night, the social club is open and some of us go running before the bar opens. I always used to take her with me on a Wednesday (before the running started) but since we split she hasn't been once. Anyway, there was only 4 of us in there after the run, and she same in. She didn't talk to me but spoke to one of the others asking about hiring the place for a party in December. She was there for about 5 minutes and then left..... I don't know why she didn't just phone someone and save her a 5 mile journey !! Am I looking too much in to it to ascertain the fact that she only came down to see if I was still in existence as we had not spoken in 13 days before yesterday, and I ignored her txt then. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mr.P Posted October 11, 2005 Author Share Posted October 11, 2005 Ok so I txt her....... but only to advise her that her new bf punched a friend of mine in the face. If that's not bad enough, it was a girl he punched. Ok so she's very loud, and may have been provoked, but that is just not acceptable. I told my ex what happened, and she waited to hear the story from him before she did anything. Both stories were similar (he obviously gave her the sugarcoated version) and she finished with him on Sunday night over it. Woo hoo !! What a result !! She calls tonight, asking if he was there..... She called the wrong number and shouted OMG down the phone when she realised. I was calm enough to say don't worry about it, she apologised and went. Nothing heard from her since, I just hope she isn't going to be stupid and give him another chance after doing something like that! So soon after he promised to change as well. Stuck between a rock and a hard place now on what to do next ......... Link to post Share on other sites
Razorback05 Posted October 11, 2005 Share Posted October 11, 2005 It's rather strange that you can give an almost play-by-play of events that happen in your ex's life despite the fact that you are implementing NC. I can share a "success" story with you in regards to NC. I was 20 years old and the gal I lived with wanted to get married. We got engaged and 3 months later broke up because I found out she was seeing someone on the sly. Well, lo and behold 4 months later my phone rings and it's her crying and saying that losing me was the biggest mistake of her life. I simply acknowledged that she had infact lost me. The success here is that I had moved on. Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 I can share a "success" story with you in regards to NC. I was 20 years old and the gal I lived with wanted to get married. We got engaged and 3 months later broke up because I found out she was seeing someone on the sly. Well, lo and behold 4 months later my phone rings and it's her crying and saying that losing me was the biggest mistake of her life. I simply acknowledged that she had infact lost me. The success here is that I had moved on. I think we have a winner for my "hero of the day" award Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 Stuck between a rock and a hard place now on what to do next ......... You're an addict, Mr P. You're addicted to this girl and her problems and drama, as surely as the worst crackhead. And with a similar level of danger and disruption in your life. Go to therapy to work out why you need this substance. And what you can do to go cold turkey... Link to post Share on other sites
Razorback05 Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 Romeo:lmao: I was merely sharing my story as a subtle (maybe not so subtle?) suggestion that he should move on. While the macho attitude isn't meant for daily consumption, a healthy dose of it can help you get through some tough times. It really is easier once you get past the "ohmahgawd what am I gonna do?" stage. It's also rather gratifying to realize that you have full control of your life again, Mr. P. I promise you if you let go, you will find someone who is for YOU, or at the very least you will be alot happier with yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 I was merely sharing my story as a subtle (maybe not so subtle?) suggestion that he should move on. While the macho attitude isn't meant for daily consumption, a healthy dose of it can help you get through some tough times. I really wasn't being sarcastic. That would look like this Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mr.P Posted October 16, 2005 Author Share Posted October 16, 2005 Ah well, she's back with him. I have no idea what kind of story he's given her to make her go back to him. What can possibly excuse someone from punching a girl in the face? I know he's told her she didn't have a black eye, but someone else who was there when it happened said she did. A friend of mine (old friend of hers) spoke to her today, he asked why she was doing that and it appeared she was in a state of confusion, but after suggesting that me and her have a talk she just said I can't sorry, besides doubt you wanna talk, I'm back with him now. Her stupidity is getting really frustrating now!! Link to post Share on other sites
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