Mrrippey Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 There is this person whom Ive been friends with the last few years. She got pregnant and now has a baby girl. She is married (as am I) but we always maintained a friendship (even shared a few personal war stories). The last year however, she has been very distant. We used to work at the same place but I have since moved on. Even texting has become pretty much non-existent. We did meet up once (In June) for about an hour or two. It was wierd but eventually it almost felt like old times. We have not seen each other since. She asked to go out for drinks again but after three texts over the last 5 weeks, that hasn’t happened. She has initiated all communication since the baby was born, I have not reached out to her at all. I have replied to her texts when she does send them. When I do reply, it usually takes a week to repsond. I am guessing the new baby (as a father of four) but, let me not jump to any conclusions. So, is this person a friend of mine or someone that has moved on with her new life (which I can understand). I am not looking to see if she is a bad person or not, I just want to know if I should consider a person like this a friend. Would you? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 Maybe her husband has reservations about your relationship. Instead of you & her meeting up try planning a double date. To sweet the deal, you get a sitter for your 4 kids & invite her to drop the baby off at your house to be part of the group babysitting. Link to post Share on other sites
Malin889 Posted August 28, 2018 Share Posted August 28, 2018 Is this the same lady from your last post? Are you both married? I didn't quite get that from your last post. Link to post Share on other sites
anika99 Posted August 28, 2018 Share Posted August 28, 2018 Well this thread certainly sheds a lot more light on your last thread, and your last thread sheds a lot of light on this thread. You are a married father of four and your friend is actually an affair partner. By reading the two threads together it seems she was initially separated or divorced when you started a NSA sexual affair with her. She was hurt when you went on vacation with your family, which I guess would include your wife, and went looking for love from her estranged husband and became pregnant. I would say that given that you two are actually affair partners and now she is back with her husband and has a new baby that this friendship needs to end. I think you both need healthier ways to deal with your marital dissatisfaction 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mrrippey Posted August 28, 2018 Author Share Posted August 28, 2018 The conclusion I have come to. Life is too short. Link to post Share on other sites
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