joel Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 was talking to a bunch of co workers at lunch time yesterday and one of them said hes going to china, vietnam for 6 months to try to find a wife. he said its easier there than here. he said as long as one can speak english your already up and ahead. he said he gave up on local women here. he said they re too indepedent here ,strong, good jobs, careers, lots womens right while its opposite in asia, so its easier to get a wife there. he watns a partner who can cook. he said that a very basic need that lot women in canada cant do or wont do even if they are asian. hes a chinese guy. he said he knows lot asians girls who eat out all time and dont cook and he doesnt like that. he wants someone like his mom -that can cook and take care of family, hee said if he really likes here he dont mind doing 2 jobs to support her and their ffamily i find guys who cant get girls loccally go aboard but wont admit it since they dont want hurt pride, my co workers said he preffers a non canadian since he already has a canadian passport lol. wow what use is a china or vietnam passport lol Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 What's your point? Your buddy is has a self aggrandized vision of himself. He'll probably never go to Asia but he's welcome to if he wants. It's his life Link to post Share on other sites
Author joel Posted August 27, 2018 Author Share Posted August 27, 2018 yea i noticed he makes a lot of excuses-like he got a girls number at our workshop but didnt even text or message her lol-why hes 42 and has no career and said finding his passion but his younger bro is working in IT aready and married he tells us he has lot rich friends who pay for his dinner. his friend joe would ask him out and he said yea ill go out with you if you pay for my dinner , he says you want my time then pay for my dinner he says. these rich friends dont work since their families are loaded and own investments overseas lol. he has no cellphone but says he has friends give him free cellphone but he rejects it lol- sounds like BS considering i know he loves anything for free lol, free fair day, free samples at grocery store Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted August 27, 2018 Share Posted August 27, 2018 He sounds like somebody who has built up a lot of resentment & wears his poverty as a badge of honor to try to make up for how disappointed he is in how his life turned out. He's probably very angry in person. His attitude also probably keeps the opposite sex away. In your shoes, I'd let him babble at work but keep my distance personally. Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted August 28, 2018 Share Posted August 28, 2018 My guess is he's looking for a hot but naive 20 something year old who will keep house for him, and overlook the fact that's he's 42 and done nothing with his life. A strong, independent woman with a career wouldn't want him. I'd just look him in the eye and say 'good luck with that, bro'. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted August 28, 2018 Share Posted August 28, 2018 He sounds like a guy who is simply ready to pay the price for a cook and sex partner. He doesn't even have to go over there. He can mail-order one for a price. Link to post Share on other sites
LordVader Posted August 30, 2018 Share Posted August 30, 2018 (edited) Well whats wrong if he does hope to find a lady that might be less like girls in US/Canada/UK Doesn't mean he's good/bad, or incapable of attracting a girl here, even if he doesn't. Sad truth is most of use will not live a fairy tale life, but we've been spoiled into thinking so I think. How people in small towns ever date IDK, they just are realists I guess, and realize or hope it's better to try than be forever single like me. Edited August 30, 2018 by LordVader Link to post Share on other sites
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