Fiance Caught me looking at another girl

[bicyclejunk]

Damn...okay, she got me. I Lied about it,

but she Sooo caught me.

 

I'm not a dog or anything, i'd NEVER cheat on

my girl, nor do i flirt with other girls. I love my girl.

But i do look.

 

BUT, we were out the other day and I saw this

gorgeous girl walk by, so i acted like i wasn't looking

directly at her, but I eyed her pretty good.

She was just so cute, she had cool hair, cool clothes,

big beautiful eyes, she was really cute.

 

I normally don't lust after other girls, seriously. But i am

a man, so occasionally i'll look at other girls, i'm more

interested in cute girls with STYLE. I look at hair and

clothes. And this girl had STYLE.

 

Anyway, my girl totally caught me. She asked, "Do you

know her?" with a "I caught you" look on her face.

I said NO, and tried to say i was just looking in that

directions, etc etc blah blah blah.

 

Just thought i'd share. We're men, We look. Whether or not

we act upon that short little moment of Desire, separates

us from dogs and gentlemen. But we all look.

[bluechocolate]

Nothing wrong with looking.

 

Leering, drooling, crotch grabbing & lewd comments are a different story.

[RecordProducer]

Ugh... whatever... if that means so much to you, go ahead... when you're aloneit's completely okay, but it's disrespectful when you do it in front of your SO... my BF does that too...

[tanbark813]

If you ever f*ck up with your woman, just own up to it. This goes not just for looking at other girls but just things in general. If you try to cover it up you just look spineless and lose more of her respect. At least if you admit, "Yeah I was looking. She was almost as hot as you." you can at least keep a little bit of your dignity.

[Opium]

I see nothing wrong with a guy 'looking' at a girl and saying 'hey she's cute'. I don't disregard the fact that their are beautiful woman and men out there, I even look and I'm in a very good relationship. But what I do find rude or not appropriate is staring or lying that you were looking.

 

Don't try to be slick next time, just admit "yeah I was looking at her, she's pretty but nothing compares to you". And say it like you mean it

[RecordProducer]

If you ever f*ck up with your woman, just own up to it. This goes not just for looking at other girls but just things in general. If you try to cover it up you just look spineless and lose more of her respect. At least if you admit, "Yeah I was looking. She was almost as hot as you." you can at least keep a little bit of your dignity.

 

I agree, but... On the other hand, if you try to cover the obvious, you're saying "I know I am guilty of being disrespectful:o " and she will appreciate your honesty to yourself and even consider it as a latent apology.

[Craig]

"Yeah I was looking. She was almost as hot as you."

:lmao: :lmao: /5

[submart]

I don't get it though. It really hurts us women when our men (while they are with us) look at other women. It makes us feel like you really arn't that into us and your looking to see if there is anything better out there.

Is this true? Or can't you help to look at girls?

A glance is alright and fine, but that's it. But it still hurts.

[elijahBailey]

I don't get it though. It really hurts us women when our men (while they are with us) look at other women. It makes us feel like you really arn't that into us and your looking to see if there is anything better out there.

Is this true? Or can't you help to look at girls?

A glance is alright and fine, but that's it. But it still hurts.

 

sorry if the looking hurts. But I've said it before.... the lookin' doesn't mean anything.... it's just looking

[mutton]

Though it's just looking, blatant staring/glancing is really rude to the girlfriend who is accompanying the guy. I think that in a way it is actually more embarassing to have your boyfriend blatantly stare at another girl while they're in your company. It's as if he doesn't have any table manners.

 

I've been stared at by guys with their girlfriends plenty of times before. Sometimes their SO notices, sometimes not. But for some reason, I feel bad for their girlfriends especially if it looks like as if they are on a date.

 

It's just that sometimes for those women who take care of themselves and dress up for a date, they at least deserve some undivided attention from their boyfriends. It really does suck to have your boyfriend drooling at another girl when you feel as if they should be appreciating the effort you put into looking good on that day.

 

Did any of you guys ever catch your girlfriend staring at another handsome dude while you're out on a date? I wish there were more, "I caught my girlfriend staring at another dude" threads.

[elijahBailey]

Did any of you guys ever catch your girlfriend staring at another handsome dude while you're out on a date?

hey, yeah, that happens and I wasn't plenty thrilled but I get over it. I'm not sayin' it's ideal, but we're all human. But eye-candy is just what it is.... eye-candy.

[mutton]

well...I guess. But try to glance at the eye candy with a little more finesse when you do. Hey, if you look at it in a certain way, I do believe that some men prefer not to look like drooling dogs while they're at it. Believe me, it's much more tasteful and attractive to your partner AND the person you're looking at if you could show the strength of having a little bit of self control to keep a glance just a glance. If you stare w/ some of the head-turning action, it actually sometimes DOES make you look somewhat desperate for a piece of meat (even if it's only eye candy to you).