smackie9 Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 My friend's husband tried to make a pass at me at a party years ago. I never told a soul about it because it was a one time thing. Now if he repeatedly did it, I would for sure. Some people do stupid things in the moment, and regret it. Those people know they did something wrong so they won't do it again. To me that's passable. But if they are just simply being a dog trying to hump my leg and or other's legs, we have a problem. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
coolheadal Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 Hahahha this is such a me question. She's a scorpio sun & scorpio moon and I think that's all the elaboration you need. No I have cert in Zodiac so I can help match up people I am pretty good! Scorpio ? ? Sun are you saying Aires the fire Don't be funny at this I am serious about this stuff! Link to post Share on other sites
anduina Posted September 1, 2018 Share Posted September 1, 2018 Since the two have already ghosted you, you likely have already been painted as the bad guy. Don't say a word and stay away from this couple. Their relationship sounds toxic. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted September 1, 2018 Share Posted September 1, 2018 i think you should get out from in the middle of them pronto. Now he made a pass and thinks, rightly or wrongly, that you're attracted to him, you need to NOT be with him alone ever out of respect for your friend and your boyfriend. You're playing with fire if you continue to be alone with him. If I found out my bf made a pass at my friend and then the friend continued to be alone with him, I'd be red hot. Link to post Share on other sites
Author j.ane Posted September 1, 2018 Author Share Posted September 1, 2018 No I have cert in Zodiac so I can help match up people I am pretty good! Scorpio ? ? Sun are you saying Aires the fire Don't be funny at this I am serious about this stuff! I'm not joking. Her sun and moon placements are both in Scorpio... Link to post Share on other sites
Zapbasket Posted September 1, 2018 Share Posted September 1, 2018 That guy is bad news, sorry. He IS a creep and the proof is in him saying, "You're so attracted to me," as he was coming on to you, rather than, "I'm so attracted to you," which was what he was enacting. He was turning the tables on you WHILE it was going on! Trust me, that's the story his gf got if they are indeed ghosting you. And good riddance, then. Portia's advice is really on point: you need to improve your boundaries. There just are some lines you never cross with your female friends' SO's, and having your friend's SO alone at your home is not something you ever do. It just leaves open the possibility of something happening and once THAT line is crossed, there really is no going back. Leave them be. From the sound of it, you're better off without the both of them. I know it hurts to lose a dear friend. Maybe when their relationship inevitably ends and your friend hopefully embarks on a process of self-enlightenment, there will be an opportunity in the future for a healthier relationship between the two of you. It's never good to be a friend who doubles as a couple's therapist. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mysterio Posted September 1, 2018 Share Posted September 1, 2018 Go out to Lunch with both of them and state that if they have problems with each other. They really can't come to you. As it puts you in a postion of divided loyalties. Be firm and say if they have problems. You can't get involved. Just like if you have a problem with your BF. You can't go to them as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts