Linda_411 Posted September 7, 2005 Share Posted September 7, 2005 Do i have the right to know about his past? Like for example....how many girls he slept with, or how many gfs he had. He thinks it's none of business, and he doesn't want to tell me because he doesn't want me or himself hurt, and he said why bring the past up, it won't change anthing. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted September 7, 2005 Share Posted September 7, 2005 you do have a right to know but only after you've been together for some time and are in an exclusive relationship. but you will have to divulge that info also. why do women always want this information? is it because they want to determine if their dude is a player or something? he is partially correct when he say that it does not matter. Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted September 7, 2005 Share Posted September 7, 2005 Do i have the right to know about his past? Like for example....how many girls he slept with, or how many gfs he had. He thinks it's none of business, and he doesn't want to tell me because he doesn't want me or himself hurt, and he said why bring the past up, it won't change anthing. Honestly IMO A lot of people get to hung up on this. If you know your BF is a good guy, you know he doesn't have any STD's or Fathered any Children, then I guess I do wonder why you feel knowing how many Girls he slept with will make things any better between the 2 of you? Then my guess is you'll freak out on the details and have new issues of worry over if someone was a better lover than you, this, that, the other.... My 2 cents Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted September 7, 2005 Share Posted September 7, 2005 why do women always want this information? Actually, I find on this site at least, it the guys who want that info. Regardless, whoever's asking - it's none of their business. Link to post Share on other sites
JS17 Posted September 7, 2005 Share Posted September 7, 2005 [/b] Actually, I find on this site at least, it the guys who want that info. Regardless, whoever's asking - it's none of their business. TRUE THAT!!! Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted September 7, 2005 Share Posted September 7, 2005 [/b] Actually, I find on this site at least, it the guys who want that info. I never ask women this sheeyot cause then I have to give them my relationship and sexual past, and believe you me, they don't wanna hear it. My experience is the woman always brings this subject up first (at least with me) Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted September 7, 2005 Share Posted September 7, 2005 [/b] Actually, I find on this site at least, it the guys who want that info. Regardless, whoever's asking - it's none of their business. I found this to be true as well... This was one of the MANY reasons I broke up with my last BF... he wouldn't stop with the questions, accusations and BS of who I had slept with, what did we do, did I like it.... it was never ending and I hated it. Link to post Share on other sites
Craig Posted September 7, 2005 Share Posted September 7, 2005 Do i have the right to know about his past? Like for example....how many girls he slept with, or how many gfs he had. He thinks it's none of business, and he doesn't want to tell me because he doesn't want me or himself hurt, and he said why bring the past up, it won't change anthing. You are going to kill this relationship with your insecurities, stop obsessing about things over which you have no control. If you are happy with the day-to-day interaction between you and your bf (excluding your need to know about his dating history and control him) then reeeeelax and enjoy your relationship. You don't become 1 when you get into a relationship, there are 3 lives involved...you, him and the relationship. Each is separate from the other. Why do you want to push your bf away from you? Seriously, why? Link to post Share on other sites
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