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Had an email from the ex today. She asked if I want to talk on the phone sometime but understood if I didn't want to . It's been about 4 months since we last spoke and 9 months since we split up because she had issues.

 

Ok folks guide me in on this one. What do I do now? Ultimately I want her back but im not ready yet and neither is she.

 

I just want to get right in her head so she knows just how important I am to her regardless of where we are at the moment in our lives.

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bluechocolate

The way I see it you're either in there or you're not. Obviously you're not ready to be friends with each other so what's the purpose of the phone call? If it's not to get back together then don't make it.

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Sorry if my post was confusing. We are friends, we keep in occasional contact but haven't spoken directly for 4 months. This is the first time since then that she has suggested it. I want to grow the friendship not restart the relationship. Reason being that I have business abroad to deal with over the next few months.

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