Talking again after a terrible ending

[Dacia3000]

The 1st guy I was ever crazy about I met my freshman year in college. He led me on a lot about the status of our relationship (we could make out and all, but he wasn't ready for the lable of "boyfriend". Right after things began progressing physicall and emotionally for us, summer break came along and we wouldn't see each other til the next semester.

Once I got back, he didn't tell me but I found out on my own that he got a girlfriend over the summer. I was upset he didn't tell me himself, but he somehow convinced me he still had feelings for me. Anyway, after this there were two instances we got physical while he was with his girlfriend. The last time, was so unexpected but he was telling me how he still cared and how I was the only girl he really connected with. So I called him to ask what it all meant after it happened and he kinda just blew me off which made me pissed.

That frustrated me so much that I told his girlfriend everything and when he found out he was soooo ANGRY and called me every name in the book. After that I figured I would never talk to him again, and I didn't really care either.

But now, one year later, he calls me out the blue like nothing happened just to catch up, let me know there are no hard feelings, and that he's broken up with his girlfriend. What does this mean. Can someone actually put something like that behind them? Is he plotting revenge? Looking for a booty call? Or has he really grown up. Does anyone recommend from personal experience to see where this goes?

[lost_in_chgo]

He probably figures you're even. He did you, you did him.

Water under the bridge, how about a booty call.

 

If you're interested, talk to him. Who knows. Time heals some wounds.

[Dacia3000]

does everyone else figure this is true as well