Author Ilovecolors Posted July 3, 2018 Author Share Posted July 3, 2018 Looks are not a reason for it to be how I look. Link to post Share on other sites
Adiron Posted July 5, 2018 Share Posted July 5, 2018 Looks are not a reason for it to be how I look. How do you know your looks aren't the reason you don't get dates? Women want to be with good looking guys, between looks and money you got the top 2 reasons. We don't know how we look to others, the only way to know we're attractive is if we actually attract others and you are clearly failing in that endeavor. So what makes you think you're good looking? Just because your mom says you're handsome doesn't mean that's going to be shared by the majority of the female gender who don't know you from a hole in the wall. Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted July 8, 2018 Share Posted July 8, 2018 There has to be hundreds of thousands of men who would love to meet a woman of few words. There just HAS to be! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ilovecolors Posted August 10, 2018 Author Share Posted August 10, 2018 Because they won't ask me out or approach me. Link to post Share on other sites
Striver Posted August 10, 2018 Share Posted August 10, 2018 Because they won't ask me out or approach me. Do you flirt with them? Maybe you come across as cold or unapproachable. You may not mean to do this. But a skilled woman can certainly get her point across without directly asking a man out. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted August 10, 2018 Share Posted August 10, 2018 The days of men approaching women in public are over or at least aren't coming back for a while. Only creeps cold approach women these days. If women want men to approach then rebuke the women who treat men like creeps for simply saying hello or good morning. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted August 10, 2018 Share Posted August 10, 2018 Because they won't ask me out or approach me. Boy, I see women being approached everywhere from the gym to Starbucks. You might ask a good friend what kind of vibe they feel you give off in these situations... Mr. Lucky 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ilovecolors Posted September 3, 2018 Author Share Posted September 3, 2018 I never have guys like me romanticly? Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted September 3, 2018 Share Posted September 3, 2018 That's unsettling. Have you dated recently? I ask because one can go on dates and not have a dating partner 'like me romantically'. Some people date for sex, others for socializing, etc, etc. You posted in the Dating forum so perhaps share a recent failed dating experience as a sample? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ilovecolors Posted September 3, 2018 Author Share Posted September 3, 2018 That's unsettling. Have you dated recently? I ask because one can go on dates and not have a dating partner 'like me romantically'. Some people date for sex, others for socializing, etc, etc. You posted in the Dating forum so perhaps share a recent failed dating experience as a sample? No I haven't dated recently. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 3, 2018 Share Posted September 3, 2018 This is a variant on the thread you started in July. Have you given any of that advice a try? When you meet a new guy that you like are you flirty? Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted September 3, 2018 Share Posted September 3, 2018 Well you gave us no clue why that might be. so I'm going to start by asking you: What do you typically wear for clothes and shoes Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted September 3, 2018 Share Posted September 3, 2018 are you good looking? Link to post Share on other sites
William Posted September 3, 2018 Share Posted September 3, 2018 Merged three threads on a similar topic. There may be some duplication and/or overlap. Thanks for your responses! Link to post Share on other sites
Imajerk17 Posted September 5, 2018 Share Posted September 5, 2018 (edited) There has to be hundreds of thousands of men who would love to meet a woman of few words. There just HAS to be! Yep. Many guys do beat themselves up about being able to keep up w a woman's wit, but if she all she does is ask the same question over and over repetitively....it just might take the pressure off the guy to be a sparkling conversationalist h8mself. Wins all around!! Edited September 5, 2018 by Imajerk17 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ilovecolors Posted September 6, 2018 Author Share Posted September 6, 2018 I feel like I can't get a boyfriend because my ugliness is on the level of hideous. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 Do you have a circle of friends, or are you an outcast? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 I feel like I can't get a boyfriend because my ugliness is on the level of hideous. Step 1: work on your self confidence Step 2: what can you do to approve your appearance? get a new stylish hair cut? Wear more or less make up? Diet? Upgrade your wardrobe? Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 First, how old are you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ilovecolors Posted September 11, 2018 Author Share Posted September 11, 2018 I feel like almost everyone has a boyfriend but me? Link to post Share on other sites
Garcon1986 Posted September 11, 2018 Share Posted September 11, 2018 The route to losing your self esteem is through constant comparison to other people. Instagram has been scientifically proven to create the most loss of self esteem of nearly all the social media sites. Why? Because everybody else's life appears cooler than yours. But guess what? It's scientifically impossible for you to be literally last in line. On the other hand, what are you doing to get guys attention? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ilovecolors Posted September 14, 2018 Author Share Posted September 14, 2018 It frustrates me that guys never stare at me? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ilovecolors Posted September 24, 2018 Author Share Posted September 24, 2018 It could because I'm the uglist woman in the world and because my level of attractiveness is hideous. Link to post Share on other sites
GuitarGuy7 Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 Well the #1 trait that men consider unattractive on a woman (at least physical wise) is obesity. Being obese is not only unattractive, but it's also unhealthy. So if you're obese, consider losing some weight. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted September 27, 2018 Share Posted September 27, 2018 OP, do you want advice, or are you just posting one liners for stress relief? Can you answer questions? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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