Isshecheating Posted September 30, 2018 Share Posted September 30, 2018 So a few month ago the girl I’m seeing makes excuses not to see me for a couple of weeks, still talking everyday. Then goes on a night out leaving her bag in the pub and not contacting me untill 12 be next day, out of character for her. Anyway plan to meet her that night and got a message with this pic, saying told you it hurting knee when I fell in the bath. Long story short I’m with the girl now ina relationship but can’t get this out of my head that there from sex, there not day old bruises are they? And line the same in all places?! Am I being paranoid or are they from gripping? Oh also there were loads of lies about where she went, what time she was home that she didn’t drink etc. I’m not controlling at all so don’t know why she would lie about that. Not sure how to add a photo. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted September 30, 2018 Share Posted September 30, 2018 You say you're with her now in a relationship. Does that mean you weren't with her in a relationship when the bruises happened and she didn't give you a full story? Link to post Share on other sites
usa1ah Posted September 30, 2018 Share Posted September 30, 2018 Very similar story line with bruising has been posted. It turned out they were from sex. His gf lied about were she had been and had sex with someone she met. Sounds like your gf has done the same. Her excuse if she admits to it will be that you weren’t officially exclusive yet. Dump and find someone that is truthful Link to post Share on other sites
Author Isshecheating Posted September 30, 2018 Author Share Posted September 30, 2018 We weren’t together properly but ment to be exclusive! Have been seeing each over for about 10 months basically in a relationship tbf, joe can I post a photo or send you one, so you can see? Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted September 30, 2018 Share Posted September 30, 2018 (edited) Don't think that will prove anything unless you have forensics check for DNA, finger prints or have eye witness testimony, or a confession. We've had guys come on here asking where they can get a sperm test kit to swab their GF's panties. If you have to go to the extreme to have people inspect photos of bruising, you got some trust issues or you are just plain scared to confront her.... And basically isn't commitment. Maybe you and her have a different opinion of what you two are. If you feel something is wrong or not quite right....then cut her loose. Edited September 30, 2018 by smackie9 2 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted October 1, 2018 Share Posted October 1, 2018 You don't generally get bruises on 1 knee from rough sex. Bruises on both knees maybe, but IMO her story is more consistent with a slip in the bath. The fact that you don't trust her & assume she's cheating is troubling. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BluesPower Posted October 2, 2018 Share Posted October 2, 2018 You don't generally get bruises on 1 knee from rough sex. Bruises on both knees maybe, but IMO her story is more consistent with a slip in the bath. The fact that you don't trust her & assume she's cheating is troubling. Actually, think about it...They have been dating for 10 months and she does not want to see him for a couple of weeks? That is kind of odd for a woman that thinks the relationship has merit. And it kind of is a red flag. Now if she has bruises on one leg, myself, I have never done or seen that. The bid problem is ducking you for 2 weeks. Kind of sounds like she was testing a new guy. Another question, if you guys are serious at all, then why have you not had the talk before now... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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