Author vla1120 Posted October 2, 2018 Author Share Posted October 2, 2018 I'm just rambling on and probably unhelpful. It’s ALL helpful! Link to post Share on other sites
Logo Posted October 3, 2018 Share Posted October 3, 2018 The real culprit is the dating game, it is brutal and bruising and even the most mature and stable man or woman can struggle to hold onto "sanity" in the face of "love gone wrong". Most can handle the death of a short term or casual fling, but most will be shaken to the core when the love of their life goes "Sorry I don't love you any more, I see no future" or is caught in the arms of someone else... years of love down the drain... At the back of just about every immature, unstable person in the dating game is some romantic misadventure or misadventures. It is not easy to remain honest, mature and stable when they can't trust anyone any more or worse want payback... Payback at whose expense; the entire male or female species? It is not easy to remain honest, mature and stable when they can't trust anyone any more or worse want payback... Not necessarily, some people are just nasty, rude and have no manners. They were brought up that way and don't know any better. You could treat them with white gloves and they would still respond with a, "**** youuuuu! as****e". But those who were once honest, trusting and mature and then changed. Well, that's a different story. I was in a relationship where I was betrayed. But instead of letting that affect me to the point that I wasn't "honest, mature and stable", I improved my skills at detecting lies, bs and head games (The other solution is to become a hermit.) That helped me look for red flags early on in the dating process and avoid problems down the road. When someone doesn't know how to learn from his or her experience, then they treat everyone with wide brush strokes. I used to work with someone who on a daily basis said, "People are all as****les." Nice guy Link to post Share on other sites
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