At what age do women become invisible?

[brigit87]

That is fine for couples who have been together for a long time or are married.

I am not sticking my D@#$ in an old vag. There is just no reason for it right now.

 

After 50 the creep factor does set in if you want to contie with younger women I think in general. You would have to dress sharp, be confident and deal with a lot of haters. I don't think it is worth it but my experience is not everyone's.

 

This is probably the most repulsive post I've ever read.

 

I don't think you're fit to date anyone.

[SmartDude]

About the old vag comment, won’t your body parts be old too?

 

I think there are a lot of people who look and feel great well into their golden years.

 

As to the menopause that’s why many women use HRT. I can’t but I think I look above average and I hope to be able to keep my body in good shape as long as I can.

 

If you choose to check out early that’s certainly your choice.

 

Today I’m getting my hair done and I always feel fabulous after!

 

Yes, that is what I am saying.

 

My body parts will be old too. Except I will have some dignity and stop having sexual relationships after a certain age. I think I just value my free time more.

[Veronica73]

Yes, that is what I am saying.

 

My body parts will be old too. Except I will have some dignity and stop having sexual relationships after a certain age. I think I just value my free time more.

 

Seriously? After age 50 (or whenever) you’re not going to want to have sex any longer? What does dignity have to do with it?

 

Edit: Nevermind. You’re the escort dude.

[sabaton]

Seriously? After age 50 (or whenever) you’re not going to want to have sex any longer? What does dignity have to do with it?

 

Edit: Nevermind. You’re the escort dude.

 

 

I believe he means to say that after age 50 he will resort to having sex with women who are 18-35, instead of sleeping with women his own age.

[brigit87]

I believe he means to say that after age 50 he will resort to having sex with women who are 18-35, instead of sleeping with women his own age.

 

Well...if he want's to pay for it that's fine.

 

In any case, women do get less sexual attention as they age. That's true. I probably get more attention then less attractive younger women. If I wear certain clothes I can have a whole room of men of all ages looking at me and try and get my attention. But most of the time I wear non-attention getting clothes.

 

Sometimes being invisible is very relaxing.

[sabaton]

Well...if he want's to pay for it that's fine.

 

 

Yeah, but what I've noticed is that there are some men in their 30s, 40s, 50s, who think they are going to get it from young, hot women for free, which is a bit amusing.

 

 

In any case, women do get less sexual attention as they age. That's true

 

 

My mother is 60 years old and she still gets approached often by attractive men, even by men who are in their mid 20s to mid 30s, when women are attractive and take good care of themselves, attention from attractive men will rarely taper off.

 

 

 

. I probably get more attention then less attractive younger women. If I wear certain clothes I can have a whole room of men of all ages looking at me and try and get my attention. But most of the time I wear non-attention getting clothes.

 

 

Yes, being young doesn't necessarily mean that the woman has a legion of men pursuing her, as there's many young women who are invisible to men for one reason or another, and there's plenty of older women who are still very attractive and can still get pretty much any man they want.

 

 

Sometimes being invisible is very relaxing.

 

 

haha, yeah, thinking back about the girls I went to college with, I'm sure they'd love to get a day off from being hit on and stared at so much. Attention is great, but after awhile it probably gets to be too much for them, sometimes.

[Chilli]

Hair dye, make-up, flashy clothes that look good on them, braces, teeh-whitening procedures, minding what they eat, many times starving themselves because they're afraid of gaining a pound.

 

 

 

The beauty industry is worth billions of dollars a year, and guess to which gender the vast, vast majority of the people who have work done on them belong to?

 

The female gender.

 

 

How many guys avoid the sun as much as possible or at the very least use susncreen?

 

 

 

What is the daily routine for men? Wake up, wash their faces with a generic soap bar, shave, brush their teeth, take a shower and go about their day.

 

 

Do they exfoliate their skin? do they save up money for when their hairline begins to take a permanent holiday up north? Do they spend money to regain their hairline, or do they just let it be so and age 20 years overnight because of it?

 

 

 

Compare that to women's daily routine, how much time they spend on their hair, clothes, skin, teeth, body, and how as women age and men age, women continue to be as focused and dedicated to their personal self-care, and men become more and more lax about it?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

overweight middle-aged women is not a thing over here. Usually the women in their middle years took care of their looks and fitness so well that they easily pass for late 20s, and they are approached and asked out and pursued by attractive men as much as a beautiful 18 year old woman is.

 

 

i was actually inside the train the other day marvelling at how beautiful this girl was, when suddenly a bunch of 10 year old kids went up to her and began to call her grandmother.

 

 

 

You think I would have rejected this woman if she was single and was interested in me just because of her age?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Nah. Women who are young and are interested in older men are usually physically unattractive women who are ignored by men their own age, or they're women who are really keen on having children and in getting married that early in life, and what attractive 18 year old man is that desperate to get married when life is pretty good for him?

 

 

There are SOME cases when the 18-22 year old hottie wants an older man, but how many guys look like Chris Pine, Chris Evans or Chris Hemsworth to begin with?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

One exception does not a rule make.

 

 

 

l'll only bother with the last one , too much to get into right now.

But 1 , no , it wouldn't but dozens and dozens over years and years tell a totally different story.

 

But anyway, l'll just add to , without starting the age old debate been hashed out 600 times, that nah l'm not saying every women ages like that some age really nicely and yeah l believe some even get more desirable with time , seen and been told many times the same thing about some guys too.

 

But that's also pretty rare , well around here anyway , most women def do not age for the better but eh the same for the guys too , l'm not saying it isn't.

Everyone ages

[FMW]

Fortunately I don't think the huge differences of opinion here matter too much, like always, it comes down to compatibility.

 

The guys who are grossed out by the thought of a woman over 40 are highly unlikely to be someone that demographic of single women would want to be anywhere near anyway

[A O]

It seems once a woman hits 50 or older they aren’t seen as vital and / or interested in romance and are overlooked.

 

Thank you

Looks don't age, ditto personality, and one doesn't have to be overly blessed in one or both either (although it sure helps). It just pays to not let oneself go, in every sense of the word.