basil67 Posted October 3, 2018 Share Posted October 3, 2018 I know it when I see it. I’m attracted to various looks and also how that person carries themself, their style of dress and just overall energy. This^ And all this gives some clues to their personality. A guy who looks like he doesn't care probably doesn't have a lot to offer. Link to post Share on other sites
Ronni_W Posted October 3, 2018 Share Posted October 3, 2018 I think that physical looks carry a lot of weight in determining who gets picked romantically. Mysterio, If you are saying that we seem to be living in highly superficial times, then who can argue with you? But it is not limited only to physical appearance; it extends to physical wealth, physical education, physical reputation (fame, status), even physical health and fitness. It will be thus as long as we continue to believe that this universe revolves around only what we can perceive, observe and experience with our physical senses. If you want to start changing things, then change it from that level, instead of just keep focusing on the superficial from within your own current powers of perception. Does that make sense? Link to post Share on other sites
guest569 Posted October 4, 2018 Share Posted October 4, 2018 Maybe I am in the minority here but I find most women to be sexually attractive. Just about the only thing that really turns me off is a girl that is really overweight. A little thick or curvy is just fine. I like short women, tall women, thin ones, thick women, blondes, brunettes, you name it. I'm even attracted to different personalities. This definitely soundslike you're in the minority. I'm intrigued. Are you saying than all women from 18 to 80 who are not very overweight are attractive? Link to post Share on other sites
Chris2016 Posted October 5, 2018 Share Posted October 5, 2018 This definitely soundslike you're in the minority. I'm intrigued. Are you saying than all women from 18 to 80 who are not very overweight are attractive? Maybe when he's in his older years he'll find his female peers sexually attractive too? I heard it's not too hard for guys to be interested in the ladies (i.e., would you tap that or not?) Myself, I'm in my early 40's, some 50'ish year olds are my cup for tea, they hit the spot, and I'm like da-yum. Now whether I can get with them is another story. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mysterio Posted October 5, 2018 Author Share Posted October 5, 2018 If I could make my woman the way I like a woman. Shorter to my 5'9. Ethnicity- I don't really care. Face- round. Weight. Can be slightly chunky. Its hard to say. At my age of 47. I feel like unless that woman is focused on me in a sweet loving way and wants me to be her main guy romantically. Other than the physical. I don't feel much for the women I see around me. If i fantasize about a woman. Its never straight to sex. Its more walking around a festival arm in arm or she is cooking for me and being playful, than just carnal sex. So for me its a blend of physical and personality, but the personality is the pull for me. Basically sweet and making an effort to connect with me. Link to post Share on other sites
guest569 Posted October 5, 2018 Share Posted October 5, 2018 Maybe when he's in his older years he'll find his female peers sexually attractive too? I heard it's not too hard for guys to be interested in the ladies (i.e., would you tap that or not?) Myself, I'm in my early 40's, some 50'ish year olds are my cup for tea, they hit the spot, and I'm like da-yum. Now whether I can get with them is another story. I should have mentioned, the 18-80 came from enigma's response in the age range thread. Just wanted to clarify, are all of these (not obese) women attractive to him? Or is it that many of them are attractive to him, but they don't meet some strict criteria on height, age, hair colour etc. I totally get the latter, but the former to me is fascinating. There are so many men that I find unattractive and not because of their weight. There are many men who I think are attractive, but I am not attracted to them!! But I know that they are nice looking. But yeah, there are not many men that I find attractive. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mysterio Posted October 5, 2018 Author Share Posted October 5, 2018 (edited) I have a female friend that is 67 and I think she is beautiful. For me I am face person more than anything else. Edited October 5, 2018 by Mysterio Link to post Share on other sites
nospam99 Posted October 5, 2018 Share Posted October 5, 2018 I am 39 and I have met women in their 50's that I thought were gorgeous, but that is the oldest in person I have seen that I was attracted to. I'm 64 and searching for women on OLD. I've seen profile photos of many women in their 60s that I thought were gorgeous based on those photos. Because of my 'picker', almost all the women I have met (two notable exceptions who 'fudged' by selecting photos that didn't represent their current appearance) with ages up to 68 have been attractive. Three of the 60 y/o's who I actually met and dated are hot - 'jump into bed right now' (we didn't, at least not 'right now') hot. One of the 58 y/o's (a ballroom dancer) has a body (and face) that compares favorably with a Hollywood actress half her age. So, yeah, there are women in their 50s and 60s who are very physically attractive. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Rotn'roses Posted October 18, 2018 Share Posted October 18, 2018 Quiet, someone who does things quietly in the background and doesnt need alot of everybodys attention because they are only looking to please one person-the person they like. Without boasting or bragging or saying a word. That would be sexy as all get out to me. Why do people always feel the need to fill the silence. It is in the quiet that their heart speaks the loudest and their attractiveness would peak for me. Never encountered this. Never met a real man either though except for my grandpa and my son who do these quiet acts of love. Id love to see a romantic partner do that one day whom I was interested in. Dang, I would say to myself, Now that is a MAN! Link to post Share on other sites
Chilli Posted October 18, 2018 Share Posted October 18, 2018 Funny you should describe all that in that way because that is the women l would go for too and did. And thought all the exact same things and, now that is a WOMAN ! Link to post Share on other sites
dream of me Posted October 20, 2018 Share Posted October 20, 2018 When my boyfriend smiled to me for the first time I was 1000 x times more attracted. I thought he was really handsome before, but that's when I knew that I wanted him. I can be unpredictable in terms of whom I'm attracted to, but I do have a soft spot for a warm smile (as I said), a masculine nose and a fit body. Link to post Share on other sites
Chilli Posted October 20, 2018 Share Posted October 20, 2018 Funny you mention noses. My nose is roman and ahh kinda substantial . And l swear , women do have a thing for my nose. One night a group of us were parked, pitch black inside the car but a friend that didn't know the car or the others knocked on the window. l said how the fk could you even tell it was me 5 other people, dark, he said recognized your nose . l thought wtf. l was a bit self conscious about the old snozzer for years after that , but l've learnt to love it haha, especially since years later l figured out the girls like it too. Link to post Share on other sites
Vesna Posted October 22, 2018 Share Posted October 22, 2018 Hair - not long and no ponytail. No dreadlocks. Race - Caucasian Height - over 5'7" Hands - calloused from work. No milksops. No pampered little mummy's boys. Skin - washed. No ink. No piercings. No modifications. Physique - not fat, no beer gut. Fitness is important. Dick - circumcised. Personal hygiene is very important. Link to post Share on other sites
LauraXX Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 I don't really think I have a type. I sometimes say things like "He's not my type", but if I'm being very honest with myself...I don't even know what that type would be. My ex was 6.5, blond and broad-shouldered. Guy I'm currently seeing is 5.5, black haired and very skinny. Don't care at all if they have tattoos, piercings, a beard, if they smoke, how they dress etc. One thing of all the guys I've ever loved had in common: They were all funny and could make me laugh. Also, they were all extroverts and very self-confident. My only no-gos: heavily overweight guys, bad personal hygiene, political and religious beliefs that I don't agree with at all. We don't have to agree on everything, but there are limits. I could never date a flat earther for example Link to post Share on other sites
livelaughdance95 Posted October 26, 2018 Share Posted October 26, 2018 I think physical appearance counts to some degree...but some people place more importance on it, while others look for other qualities. But to me, it's important to be attracted to the other person and find them "cute" in order for a deeper attraction to develop. I tend to be attracted to guys who are tall (at least 6 feet), in shape, lean, or at least not overweight (shows that he takes care of himself and exercises), and dresses casually but is well-groomed. Individual features vary from person to person--I'm not attracted to any particular hair or eye color more than the other. Also, I don't like a lot of visible tattoos on a guy--but that's just me. I'm also attracted to facial hair on guys if it's well-groomed or a little scruffy--I find that sexy. Of course, they have to be clean and have good hygiene. A cute smile always makes him more attractive in my book. Link to post Share on other sites
nospam99 Posted October 31, 2018 Share Posted October 31, 2018 Someone started a thread about sex dolls on S&RHP earlier today. They posted a link to what I guess is a European web site that sells the dolls. In the photos on the web site the dolls appear to be unnaturally physically ideal. That got me to thinking about this thread and the 'notorious' ten-point scale. So I felt like pointing out that ten points is too many for me. I'm at a loss to try to distinguish what the difference might be between, say, a 4 and a 5 or an 8 and a 9. I'll posit just three categories of physical looks and suspect the boundaries will vary in the perceptions of different people: 1) no appeal 2) attractive enough to be of potential romantic interest 3) over the top e.g. certain models and celebrities like Margot Robbie and Brad Pitt whose looks are their job. This last category is a little 'weird'. I've never met a 'looks-based' celebrity in real life. Do they really look that good? Or do we always see them photographed with the advantage of make-up or something else that would raise a non-celebrity to that level? And are some of the striking non-celebrities we might have encountered in day to day life just as good-looking as those 'stars'? Link to post Share on other sites
GinON Posted October 31, 2018 Share Posted October 31, 2018 Lots of science on this topic! Link to post Share on other sites
healing light Posted October 31, 2018 Share Posted October 31, 2018 There are so many men that I find unattractive and not because of their weight. There are many men who I think are attractive, but I am not attracted to them!! But I know that they are nice looking. But yeah, there are not many men that I find attractive. This is me, too. Link to post Share on other sites
sabaton Posted October 31, 2018 Share Posted October 31, 2018 (edited) Quote If I could make my woman the way I like a woman. Quote Shorter to my 5'9. 5'8''-5'10'' with a strong preference for a girl to be 5'10'' or taller. Quote Ethnicity- I don't really care. I am very, very attracted to Middle-Eastern girls. Quote Face- round. I like square jawlines in women. Quote Weight. Can be slightly chunky. I like the woman to be 90lbs if she's short, or 110lbs to 140lbs with a flat stomach, for the really tall ones. Quote Its hard to say. At my age of 47. I feel like unless that woman is focused on me in a sweet loving way and wants me to be her main guy romantically. Other than the physical. I don't feel much for the women I see around me. If i fantasize about a woman. Its never straight to sex. Its more walking around a festival arm in arm or she is cooking for me and being playful, than just carnal sex. What I care about in a girl's personality is, she's sweet, gentle, attentive, and loves to flirt with me. Edited September 25, 2020 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Removed external link 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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