d0nnivain Posted October 3, 2018 Share Posted October 3, 2018 You are being very foolish. Do not have a kid with her & do not get married. 1. You don't know each other well enough. You have only been dating for about 1 year. 2. You don't trust her (with good reason) She's still involved with multiple other men. She's not ready for monogamy or motherhood. 3. Calling your GF your Mrs. does not make her faithful Please I am begging you do not bring a child into this mess. I'm not going to use the pejorative you used but a leopard doesn't change its spots. You may be in love with her but she's playing you. Link to post Share on other sites
doyathinkso Posted October 3, 2018 Share Posted October 3, 2018 is it a case of once a slag always a slag ? In a word ..... YES. Now, run!! Run like your ass is on fire! Or would you like to keep on getting the clap? and raising some other dude(s) kids? Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted October 3, 2018 Share Posted October 3, 2018 i don't want to be the type of boyfriend who is constantly asking where are you what are you doing. Then choose your girlfriends more wisely. Find a woman who's behaviour doesn't leave you suspicious. Mate, she's hot mess and you should be running for the hills. I saw in another post that you wouldn't have dated her if you knew this stuff when you started. Thing is, we NEVER know all the yukky bits about a partner when we start out - this first year together is the time when you look for red flags and act on them if you see them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Guildford Posted October 3, 2018 Share Posted October 3, 2018 John1991 - You are not engaged to this girl, you are not married to her and she isn't yet carrying your child. You are however spying on her. If you are spying on the girl this early in a relationship, you should dump her and run. Spying is something you do when you are married, you have a long history with her and you have children to protect. Dump her! Link to post Share on other sites
DrReplyInRhymes Posted October 5, 2018 Share Posted October 5, 2018 Have some self respect, you're worth more than what she values you at, Walk away from this woman, don't reply to her at the drop of a hat. She's shown you how much you mean to her, you're beneath her ex flings, Why chase after a woman who hides other guys waiting in the wings? Find a woman who adores only you, who would never choose another guy above you, Who loves and admires you and isn't afraid to show it in public and private too, Who, when propositioned by other guys for sex, will defend your relationship fiercely and to no end, A woman you can trust will react the same way you would by texting them "I am not interested" and hitting send. Link to post Share on other sites
Logo Posted October 5, 2018 Share Posted October 5, 2018 (edited) Here's the bottom line: RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUN! One day, when your relationship hits a bump, guess where she's going to go for a shoulder to cry on..........and more...... This is the tip of the iceberg. That app you installed isn't going to make her any more or less faithful. She is insecure and a habitual monkey-brancher with a few orbiters, just in case. Has she told any of them that she has a boyfriend and that their kind of talk is not appropriate? No. She clearly doesn't respect the relationship and as painful as it's going to sound, it looks like she doesn't respect you. Do yourself a favor, tell her you're not putting up with her shenanigans ans lies any more and just walk away. You're going to rationalize this a million ways, but she's going to hurt you in the end. Please leave her. Dump her and forget about her. She's going to make your life miserable and rob you of your self-worth. You don't want that. She will rob you of your self-worth. Remember that. Please dump her and block her. Edited October 5, 2018 by Logo Link to post Share on other sites
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