HurtwoU Posted September 9, 2005 Share Posted September 9, 2005 I am in a jam. I met the nicest guy ever....His name is Luke. I never met a guy like him. He is so funny, and I can tell he cares about me. I never trusted a guy before, but I trust him. I know he would never hurt me, I know he will never lie...and I believe every word he says. Now heres the problem....I never had a guy I could trust and talk to, and I love pushing my limits.....I push and push and see how much he could take, and so far he could take alot. See I never trusted a guy and im use to doing this and he doesnt deserve it but I donno how to stop. I never had a guy I could talk to about my feelings.....and he asked me how I think its gonna work if we cant talk about things. Its not like I dont want to talk to him about my feelings its just that I dont know how. I know it sounds stupid but its the truth. I feel like a complete idiot because he always tells me how he feels and I cant do it in return and I think hes getting mad. I dont want to lose him. Were just friends now and we both want more in the future. So how do I change? I want to tell him how I feel...that I care about him alot and that I dont mean to be a bit*h and not tell him things....Hes the only guy in my life right now that I care deeply about and I dont want to lose that.....he makes my days alot happier, he makes me laugh everytime we talk, and I wasnt happy like this in 2 years,,, so how do i save things? Link to post Share on other sites
jhurtinct Posted September 9, 2005 Share Posted September 9, 2005 open up, buy him a card for starters, do it over the phone, something - he sounds like a great guy Link to post Share on other sites
ThatOneGuy Posted September 9, 2005 Share Posted September 9, 2005 Well, I hate to say this, But I had a little hard time trusting the female sex. No offence, But there are a ton of skanks in my area. Anyway, The thing you have to do is trust him with information you don't care about him knowing! Pretend like something is a big deal to you, When really its not exactly that important, And if he passes this test well then you can start trusting him with bigger and bigger things, Until you fully 100% trust him. Oh, But he can't know your doing this, So keep it on the down-low. If he found out your testing him he'll probably get pissed. For some reason some people actually beilive the second you start something you have total trust. But trust has to be earned. Link to post Share on other sites
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