Blinksy Posted October 10, 2018 Share Posted October 10, 2018 Long story short: Broke up with my gf of 2 years for a month now. I had my doubts before but now I cought her chatting and talking over the phone with a guy from a different country. It wasnt just usual chat but more like LDR chat. So I decided that that was enough for me and I dont want such a person in my life anymore. She still tried to make me become friends with benefits because the sex was really good but I refused her. Now I found out that she's with another guy in vacation prolly having sex and stuff. I really dont ever want her in my life but I cant stop getting mad thinking she's with another guy. Wtf can I do? NC is not working Link to post Share on other sites
sfroncz1 Posted October 10, 2018 Share Posted October 10, 2018 Going through a similar situation myself. Nothing you can do. Just dont message her. I recommend hitting the gym, video games, books, new tv show that's not sexual or relationship-y. Gotta just bide your time until you either heal or she comes back. Feel free to message me if you want. I just had to block mine because she's reaching out with dumb stuff as well Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted October 10, 2018 Share Posted October 10, 2018 Wtf can I do? NC is not working But you're not on NC. If you were on NC, you wouldn't be receiving all this information about her and getting yourself all knotted up about it. If you do want to go on NC, then block her everywhere and stop accepting information about her life. Then you will be able to self-preserve and move on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Blinksy Posted October 10, 2018 Author Share Posted October 10, 2018 Her brother which is my best friend told me she is out with someone... I told him not to tell me anymore because I dont wanna know. And she tried the sex thing the first 2 weeks then I blocked her for almost 3 weeks now. Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted October 10, 2018 Share Posted October 10, 2018 Her brother which is my best friend told me she is out with someone... I told him not to tell me anymore because I dont wanna know. And she tried the sex thing the first 2 weeks then I blocked her for almost 3 weeks now. Tell him to stop feeding you anymore information. If he cares about your wellbeing, he will refrain from doing it. If he keeps doing it, then maybe you need to step back from him for a bit until you get to some level of emotional clarity. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Blinksy Posted October 10, 2018 Author Share Posted October 10, 2018 Already mocked him for telling me that. He said he didnt realised and wont do it anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
Gretchen12 Posted October 10, 2018 Share Posted October 10, 2018 If it's still a problem finding out things accidentally, just tell him you need time away from him and in a few months you'll be back as best friends. If he's your best friend, he'll understand. The information goes both ways, you know, he can also give info about you to his sister. This is indirect contact. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Blinksy Posted October 10, 2018 Author Share Posted October 10, 2018 I don't care if she hears things about me. She doesnt even has what to hear in the first place. I'm focusing on work now and I don't really have the mood to date any new girls. I just want to work on myself, my career, get back in shape... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Blinksy Posted October 11, 2018 Author Share Posted October 11, 2018 That bitch tried to reach out asking me for sex after she spent the whole week somewhere with her FWB. Blocked her phone number since I forgot to do that and told her she's gonna find all her stuff in the dumpster tomorrow (we are neighbors). Dont need that cheater hoe in my life for one second. Link to post Share on other sites
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