preraph Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 It's just bad judgment and I'm sure he was looking at your boobs, not the blouse. If you catch him looking at your boobs again, you should tell him "My eyes are up there (pointing)" and hope that's the end of it. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted October 13, 2018 Share Posted October 13, 2018 It's just bad judgment and I'm sure he was looking at your boobs, not the blouse. If you catch him looking at your boobs again, you should tell him "My eyes are up there (pointing)" and hope that's the end of it. when i'm looking at a woman's fun bags I stare with an open mouth and my tongue hanging out partially. no, i'm just kidding Link to post Share on other sites
Author Springsummer Posted October 13, 2018 Author Share Posted October 13, 2018 It's just bad judgment and I'm sure he was looking at your boobs, not the blouse. If you catch him looking at your boobs again, you should tell him "My eyes are up there (pointing)" and hope that's the end of it. not necessary... a woman also told me she likes my blouse. so, I will give him the benefit of a doubt. talk about this woman, she got gigantic pair. but she is also many size bigger than me overall. If I got hers on my frame, I wouldn't even be able to walk. talk about fashion, I got the blouse on clearance for $12 bucks or something(don't remember the exact amount), that's like 1/4 or 1/5 of the original cost. Just goes to show you just because it's cheap and apparently nobody wants it doesn't mean it's not of good quality and style and doesn't fit you nicely....same thing goes for people. Link to post Share on other sites
Timshel Posted October 13, 2018 Share Posted October 13, 2018 OP, what was the exact phrase he used? Nice blouse Mystery solved....for some. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted October 13, 2018 Share Posted October 13, 2018 Nice blouse What did you say in return? If you could roll back the clock, what would you like to have said? Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
losangelena Posted October 13, 2018 Share Posted October 13, 2018 All of this over "nice blouse?" Jesus Christ. That is about the most innocuous thing anyone could say. I feel like I am constantly giving drive-by compliments at work: "nice shoes," "cool glasses," "hey, nice haircut," "that is a bitchin' sweater," etc etc. Yeah, I guess you could say that I'm a woman it's different, but is it really? Are men not allowed to notice anything? As someone else said, unless he was full-on staring at your chest when he said it, just say thanks and move on. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted October 13, 2018 Share Posted October 13, 2018 No men are not allowed to notice anything. I would suggest that men keep it strictly business with women they work with. It is the only way to be sure. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted October 13, 2018 Share Posted October 13, 2018 All of this over "nice blouse?" Jesus Christ. That is about the most innocuous thing anyone could say. I feel like I am constantly giving drive-by compliments at work: "nice shoes," "cool glasses," "hey, nice haircut," "that is a bitchin' sweater," etc etc. Yeah, I guess you could say that I'm a woman it's different, but is it really? Are men not allowed to notice anything? As someone else said, unless he was full-on staring at your chest when he said it, just say thanks and move on. HUGE difference.... A few weeks ago, I was at the dentist...The assistant(who I have never seen there before-maybe late 30's-early 40's) is prepping me and noticed my tattoo on my upper arm...Without asking, she pushes my sleeve up to expose the whole tattoo up almost to the shoulder....Then rubs her hand across my arm and says...."wow..very nice"... I didn't make much of it, thought it may have been a bit ballsy on her part, but there is no way in God's creation I could come close to something like that with any woman ....Let alone a woman I have never met in my life.. TFY 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted October 13, 2018 Share Posted October 13, 2018 Maybe men need to start raising more of a fuss when women compliment us. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted October 13, 2018 Share Posted October 13, 2018 Maybe men need to start raising more of a fuss when women compliment us. Agree... The sad part is if a guy reports that type of stuff, the police/authorities would probably ask what she looked like and does she have a friend... TFY Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted October 13, 2018 Share Posted October 13, 2018 Agree... The sad part is if a guy reports that type of stuff, the police/authorities would probably ask what she looked like and does she have a friend... TFY True but they need to follow their own rules. You can't make rules you are unwilling to follow. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted October 13, 2018 Share Posted October 13, 2018 Maybe men need to start raising more of a fuss when women compliment us. overall women don't compliment men that much, so when you do get one its probably genuine Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted October 13, 2018 Share Posted October 13, 2018 I didn't make much of it, thought it may have been a bit ballsy on her part, but there is no way in God's creation I could come close to something like that with any woman ....Let alone a woman I have never met in my life.. TFY You are correct. I see women doing things like this to men all the time and it's wrong. If they want men to keep their hands to themselves they need to follow the same rules. Link to post Share on other sites
eleanorrigby Posted October 13, 2018 Share Posted October 13, 2018 All of this over "nice blouse?" Jesus Christ. That is about the most innocuous thing anyone could say. I feel like I am constantly giving drive-by compliments at work: "nice shoes," "cool glasses," "hey, nice haircut," "that is a bitchin' sweater," etc etc. Yeah, I guess you could say that I'm a woman it's different, but is it really? Are men not allowed to notice anything? As someone else said, unless he was full-on staring at your chest when he said it, just say thanks and move on. I don't get this either. I have always been able to tell the difference between a regular compliment and an "I'd like f*ck you, are you game?" compliment. I respond to both with a thank you. It works for both. The guy who just wanted to give a compliment gets thanks, and the guy who wanted to f*ck gets a response that lets him know he's not going to get it. A guy that is harassing and abusive gets a dirty look/shut down remark. But the harassing abusive guy is rare. It's amazing to me how people are acting. Maybe I've been out of the general public for too long because this makes no sense to me... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Chilli Posted October 13, 2018 Share Posted October 13, 2018 Magine if he knew there's a 3 page thread on LS about it, gotta laugh. Just wondering though ummm , were the twins a little more exposed in that top or looking extra perky ? Link to post Share on other sites
Mumbles Posted November 1, 2018 Share Posted November 1, 2018 overall women don't compliment men that much, so when you do get one its probably genuine I get quite a few from random ladies, and I also bust them having a sneaky peek as well ... something I was oblivious to when I was younger (sigh...). I'm not a handsome man, but in the last several years have started to get a sense of fashion that works for me - I think this is probably the base of it. I take it all as complimentary ... never offended. Link to post Share on other sites
MountainGirl111 Posted November 1, 2018 Share Posted November 1, 2018 Where I work I don't get compliments from the guys on my clothes. If I did, I would just say "thanks" and not think much of it. Why? Cuz the working relationship I have with the guys at work is just that. There's a well defined boundary. A working relationship. There's never been anything inappropriate implied or awkward and if there was it obviously went over my head. I'm more likely to get compliments from the gals. *shrug* Link to post Share on other sites
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