Letssayimjim Posted October 13, 2018 Share Posted October 13, 2018 I have being seeing my girlfriend for 7months or so. I love her to pieces and she lives me. She has lied to me om several occasions - mosly about stupid poibtless things but somethings in my eyes are serious. There is a boy from her past she had told me she alept with him 2 years ago. And when she split with her ex he started talking ti her again. She told me that he messaged her repeatedly for 5 months multiple times per day, and she didnt once reply to him. I questioned it because i foubd it odd that any man would constantly message a women everyday for months and litrally get no reply at all. So i confroted her about it. She stuck to her story about ignoring him completley... she said 'you are asking me the same questions and you will not get a diffrent answer, im telling you the truth' Anyway hours later she eventually admitted that she did reply a few times. So she liee about it. I dont know why cause it was the past and it was nothing to do with me. So i dont know why she lied. She sent me a photo via snapchat in sexy underwear. Then 5 days later i got the same photo again randomly through whatssapp. I questioned it as i thought it was strange it come through so ra domly when she already sent me it on snapchat. She said that she sent it on snapchat first and it didnt work, so then she sent it on whatsapp, she said it must if been delayed coming through on whatsapp then something must of changed and it got pushed through and i eventually got it. 5 days later! I know that if a photo fails to send on whatsapp you have to physically press retry to send it again. So she wants me to belive that she must of scroll up through 5days of text to tap retry. She says she dosnt know why it happebed and that she is telling the truth and her story wont change. - you seeing a pattern here? Thats what she said about the other boy when she eventually told me the truth. I get up for work at 0450 on a morning, i text her to say mornong everyday. One time i noticed she went unactive on whatsapp at 0450. Just as my alarm went off. I asked her a out it and she swears that she was not on whatsapp at all at that time. So im expected to just take her word for it and accsept that whatsapp is lying about the time she was online. She will never admit she was online but its obvious she was. She has gone on holiday now, i said to her i bet you cant wait for your first airport drink, shw said shes not drinking in the airport. Just before she got on her flight her friend put a picture on her story and she was sat there with a pint infront of her. I asked her sevral times if she had had a drink yet and everytime she said no. I made the point that i seen her with a pint in the airport and asked why she would lie about something so stupid like that. She said ahe dosnt know. She admitted that she has told lies and that she cant help it, she said ahe has anxeity and it makes her do stupid things like lie. She is on holiday how and we have had major arguments over her lying. Ive said some nasty things to her i have admitted are wrong and i apologised. But i am hurting now, i dont know what she is lying about and what she isnt. My head is going mental. I havnt ate for 2 days i must of had 6 hours sleep in the same amount of time. I feel like because we have argued, she will just forget the relationship while she is abroad or do somthing to get bacn at me on purpose. She has told me she has men coming up to her all the time saying she looks pretty and stuff, but she tella them she has a boyfriend and they leave. But in the same sentence shw said its hallsrious when people come up to her cause they are supprised at how old she is. She is 28 but lools 21. So if she tells them she has a boyfriend and they leave how would they know how old she is? There is more to it than she is telling me. Again onsnapchat story there is a photo of a man wearing her earring, why would she even communicate with other men long enough for them to wear her ear ring? I find my self checking whatsapp to see if shes online, checking snapchat to see if anything has been posted and its rewlly not healthy for me. Its making so anxious i feel sick and stressed. I dont think anyone will read this but i have nobody else to talk to and i need to get this out of my head Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted October 13, 2018 Share Posted October 13, 2018 She admitted that she has told lies and that she cant help it, she said ahe has anxeity and it makes her do stupid things like lie. OK, she's admitted she isn't truthful. You've determined on your own she's not honest with you. What's your question for us? Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted October 13, 2018 Share Posted October 13, 2018 She admitted that she has told lies and that she cant help it, she said ahe has anxeity and it makes her do stupid things like lie. To my knowledge, the research has yet to show any association between anxiety and lying behavior... I think, she is lying to you yet again... Link to post Share on other sites
FMW Posted October 13, 2018 Share Posted October 13, 2018 You know she lies. She's making you miserable. So what are you going to do about it? Link to post Share on other sites
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