K4dan2 Posted October 14, 2018 Share Posted October 14, 2018 My ex broke up with me and she use to talk to her sister a lot about me. She would tell her that she shouldn’t lose me. I’ve never met her, but was included in a text string. Would it be wrong to reach out to her sister to find out if ex still has dealing, as far as my possibility of getting back with her? The relationship was great but I’ve had a lot going on, but I’m good now and ready to start a real relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Chassit Posted October 14, 2018 Share Posted October 14, 2018 Yeah, I wouldn't do that... The fact that you are on here asking shows that you really already know... Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted October 14, 2018 Share Posted October 14, 2018 Either talk to your EX directly or don't. But do not drag a third party, the sister into this. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted October 14, 2018 Share Posted October 14, 2018 No, do not contact her sister. It's just not appropriate. Link to post Share on other sites
BC1980 Posted October 15, 2018 Share Posted October 15, 2018 No way. She probably wouldn't tell you the truth anyway. Her loyalty is to her sister, not you. Link to post Share on other sites
FMW Posted October 15, 2018 Share Posted October 15, 2018 Everything above, plus - your ex would probably be super annoyed at you for going to her sister and then be less likely to want to even talk to you ever again. Link to post Share on other sites
Author K4dan2 Posted October 18, 2018 Author Share Posted October 18, 2018 Convinced myself to do it earlier but took everyone’s advice and didn’t. Thanks, glad I didn’t. I Don’t have time for this drama, it sucks but the true reason for the breakup was messed up, so it was probably for the best. Link to post Share on other sites
Felt Better Posted October 18, 2018 Share Posted October 18, 2018 Convinced myself to do it earlier but took everyone’s advice and didn’t. Thanks, glad I didn’t. I Don’t have time for this drama, it sucks but the true reason for the breakup was messed up, so it was probably for the best. Keep going strong friend, it's definitely for the best however you don't really realise that until you meet someone who you perceive as a better mate. Which will happen inevitably. Link to post Share on other sites
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