another guy question

[vickyp]

Hi LS. I have another question. I met this guy recently. We talk and flirt all the time. I think we have good chemistry. He asked for my number a while back, I gave it. But he never called or text. I thought, not a big deal since I see him in my gym class. Last Friday, we were talking about good restaurants and I said, " on sat do you want to go to try out ABC? Before I even finished my sentenced he said yes. He even blew me kisses when he was leaving that night. I thought, wow my luck has changed. Well, I haven't seen him all week, and he hasn't called or text me at all. I know he works nights, and I see his car at work, when I go home. ( its on my way). Not be stalker. My question is, do I just turn the page and forget about it? I mean after reading all these posts, I know I'm not going to chase someone who isn't chasing me. Then if I do see him lets me today or next week, how do I act? to be honest, I'm abit disappointed. I know if someone likes you, they will show you or make an effect. I know you look at actions and not words. I get it. Do I just completely ignore him if I see him? or tell him, , you blew it with a great girl. Help

Edited October 18, 2018 by vickyp

[Gaeta]

I think the guy is just doing his usual routine. You said you talk and flirt at gym class so wait till gym class. Do you have a gym class before Saturday?

 

 

The guy doesn't text or call probably because he's afraid of doing something stupid and miss his chance. Give him a break.

[vickyp]

I think the guy is just doing his usual routine. You said you talk and flirt at gym class so wait till gym class. Do you have a gym class before Saturday?

 

 

The guy doesn't text or call probably because he's afraid of doing something stupid and miss his chance. Give him a break.

 

The gym class is everyday. He hasn't been there, all week. So im overreacting?

[Happy Lemming]

... I said, " on sat do you want to go to try out ABC? Before I even finished my sentenced he said yes.

 

Text him on Friday, to firm up plans for Sat. night (at a time when you know he is awake, since he works nights).

 

And since he works the night swift, texting is going to limited, as he is sleeping when you are up and vice-versa. His internal clock is totally different than yours.

[snowboy91]

I know if someone likes you, they will show you or make an effect.

 

Yes, true. Question for you though - do you actually like this guy? I'm going to assume so because you took the effort to post here.

 

If they like you, they'll make an effort. That applies to him as well as you. So to reverse the order of that statement, if you like him and he's not making the effort, you have 2 choices: make an effort for him and ask him out, or miss your chance. At this point you have nothing to lose by asking.

 

Do you have his number or some way of getting in contact? Message him. Ask him to go do something. If not, then wait until the next gym class and ask him directly.

[Springsummer]

I know if someone likes you, they will show you or make an effect.

 

ya...

 

This person I mentioned in my posts who like to stare at me, walked by me in a LONG and narrow corridor this morning. so, this morning is unlike any other encounters where we only run into other too briefly.

 

So, he had the chance to make an effort, but he didn't smile or anything, but didn't stop looking at me though.

 

So, obviously he didn't show or make an effort. No idea why he likes to look, maybe that's the way he is...he like to look at people.

 

(sorry for jump in this thread with my 'story', but this thread makes me think...)