When you are ready to date again

[Rotn'roses]

I am finally putting my past behind me and actually feeling eager to move forward with dating once again in the new year. I am letting go of my past relationship hang ups. I wish them all well and harbour no ill will and they are naught but a distant and unrelated event that occurred in my past and now I am in the present and feeling much happier and safer.

 

I just need to align a few things up and I should be sailing off into the sunset with my eyes focused on finding that one special person hopefully whom I can share my life with! I am ready for love again! Yea! It was worth the past few years of pain to get to the other side of this once dark tunnel. I cant wait to see who might be out there, perhaps waiting to meet me too! It is so exciting. I am going to have so much fun trying to find my Mr. Right. And if it isnt in my cards, that is fine to. I am just excited that I want to even try again.

 

So, for all those out there who are suffering, I want to send my hugs and smiles your way. Keep going forward because eventually you will find your way out of the darkness and into the light where acceptance and forgiveness and completeness come from within, no matter what your situation may look like.

 

A year ago, I was devestated, lost, abused, taken for granted, made fun of, humiliated, and used and today...I am good, you know?! Like, real good. Thanks be to Jesus-gotta give a shout out to my Boy! Whoo! Lol. # lets do this

Anyone else been through the pits then found their partner, I am all ears! I want to fill my life with possibilities, so please share your dream come true with me if you have found yourself a good love!

Edited October 19, 2018 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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[Chilli]

Hi roses.

was it a long marriage or just some short relationship, ?

For me divorcing after 20yrs , l spent 3 yrs just alone , just alone.

For me that was the smartest thing l ever did,

 

6yrs now and things took some really nice turns at about 31/2 yrs.

Sorry but l don't really wanna go into life now just yet but l will say when l started meeting people one of the biggest issues wa sthat the girls were just out there too soon , no idea why they would do that but most of them were still just plain too messed up.

But not all , just a few were smart enough and self aware enough to take the time they really needed to get themselves in a good place and at peace again as l'd done myself.

 

Yaknow , we're all gonna have shyt , yaknow, but it's all about what we've done with all that and how we're feeling now, attitudes, everything.

 

l'd be a bit worried a year isn't near long enough for you , but it depends how long the relationship or marriage was too.

But if you feel ok about it , just remember to listen to yourself when you do meet someone and if you think you need more time then just step back and take it.

The world will still be there when your ready.

Good luck