Sureshot Posted September 10, 2005 Share Posted September 10, 2005 Hey, this question is mostly geared towards the ladies, but all replies are welcome, So ladies.... what type of things can a guy do to make you just come up and start talking to him, Theres a girl I want to talk to, But I cant go talk to her, im not that big of a wuss, after she approaches me,i will be doin the other manly stuff like asking for a date, I dont have a prob with that usually, just initiating contact. SO what makes you decide to go talk to a guy, How about, When he's walking your way in the school hallway, he kinda gives you a smile or tries making eye contact, I dont know,so far that is my plan, next time I see her, any other advice? thanks in advance for all replies. Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted September 10, 2005 Share Posted September 10, 2005 Hmmm... Well personally I like the Guy who stalks me until I get scared and give up... JK JK JK! If a Guy has a great smile and is making a lot of eye contact with me then I will approach him Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted September 10, 2005 Share Posted September 10, 2005 Good luck on getting her to make the first move. I'd still say most women are in still in the old days and expect the guy to come up to them first which is IMO gay. If a person has an interest in another person then they shoudl go up to them and tell them, guy or girl. I'd love to find a girl who actually took initiative rather than sit back and wait but I know it'll never happen. Women say they want to be equal yet when it comes to this aspect they are old fashioned... Link to post Share on other sites
Gold Pile Posted September 10, 2005 Share Posted September 10, 2005 BMW and the appearance of wealth may help. On a more wholesome note: Flash a nice smile, strike subtle poses that show your best features. Then act uninterested. If you catch her looking, give the brief warm smile, go back to ignoring her. If you see her around everyday, always smile an give a warm greeting, but never linger. But it's all a hell of alot easier if you make the 1st move. Link to post Share on other sites
Courtney... Posted September 11, 2005 Share Posted September 11, 2005 Just like men, women are afraid of being rejected. If you make it obvious that you will say yes, she will take the bait if she's interested. I guess my question is, if you have a girl you like, why are you trying to get her to approach you? Is there a reason you can't ask her? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sureshot Posted September 13, 2005 Author Share Posted September 13, 2005 Ya, there is a reason i cant approach her, I have no idea how to without looking wierd, We've seen eachother almost everyday for 4 years, and if i went up out of the blue and talked to her, itwould seem really wierd, we have said a few words together,but i was so nervous that I backed out of the convo, Now, im not nervous with girls anymore, im actually really good, found some inner game,but i just cant approach her, I think its because ive never liekd a girl nearly as much as I liked her,oh well, she might think it would be akward to approach me too, its too bad, I might as well forget about it. Link to post Share on other sites
Sealy Posted September 13, 2005 Share Posted September 13, 2005 she might think it would be akward to approach me too, its too bad, I might as well forget about it. thats the spirit!! there is nothing werid about a hello.. Link to post Share on other sites
Gold Pile Posted September 15, 2005 Share Posted September 15, 2005 Don't forget about it!. Start slow, flirt some. Go real slow...it's been 4 years! At this rate, you may get together by retirement. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted September 15, 2005 Share Posted September 15, 2005 Good luck on getting her to make the first move. some of the aggressive fat ugly ones will make the first move they have no other choice cause men never approach them... Link to post Share on other sites
questionsforyall Posted September 26, 2005 Share Posted September 26, 2005 some lady that wasnt that hot did the lip licking thing to me today i was like huh wtf Link to post Share on other sites
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