Mysterio Posted October 20, 2018 Share Posted October 20, 2018 I used to be 220- 225 lbs for a good 8 yr or so. I went from 170 ish in the early 2000's to 220 lbs in the 2010's. Even though I worked out 5 days a week. When I got into Intermittent Fasting. I have dropped a lot of weight. Everyone mentions it. I am now at 197-200 LBS. So to me, because I have done this. I am making it when it comes to losing weight. In the Romance department. I feel like I have nothing. I don't have any viable love interest at the moment. I want to change this. I want to make it in romance and love. I feel like this part of my life has actually been the heaviest thing to deal with. It always feels complicated and murky at best. At age 47 to me, it's scary that I have not been able to find a love match that is workable. It's not my looks or personality from my view. It also feels like my picks are wrong. If a woman picks me. It works out way better for a while than when I do the picking and for me, it not like I am focused on just having sex with her and thats that. At this stage of my life. All I want to do is date one woman and form an LTR. In that LTR, we have a lot of fun with each other. Physical affection/laughs/interesting conversations/work out any conflict when it arrives and just be a reasonably happy couple. So f I can lose weight, I wonder what it's going to take to meet a viable love partner. Going On-line/Real life Approaches or letting it fall into my lap. I just think at age 47 its time to dig deep in myself and others that have a similar situation. I just can't accept being single when I desire love and affection and can give it as well, as a reality. Whats your take. Is the ideal relationship not realistic? Link to post Share on other sites
Chilli Posted October 21, 2018 Share Posted October 21, 2018 well , l do know this much , nope it's not unrealistic at all. but granted it is tricky and it is hard to find and then when you do it's just as tricky keeping it that way , over time anyway. l'm 100 % cert to also , that like anything in life there's also too a fair amount of luck involved in finding it in the first place. Yaknow , we all have our areas of luck , some work or business or money or family , some almost everything it seems, some love but not in others . Me , l'm most lucky in real estate and love, these are really my only two areas of luck , the rest l have to work like a dog to get and work out. l can get them though , l just have to work like fk to do it. Not sure if we can do the same with love if it turns out to be one of our unlucky areas but eh , l'd give it a go if l wanted it and had too. Link to post Share on other sites
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