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ever walked across the floor at a club to ask a girl to dance only to get shot down?

 

 

walk of shame

 

women have no idea what a man goes through to ask a woman out

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Yes. I get that being turned down can be really tough. I’ve always been sensitive to that when men have approached me out of the blue. Still, this is someone you know and she was drunk and upset. How are you going to get her back if you don’t make yourself vulnerable? You’ll always wonder.

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You’re building this up in your head too much. How about adding a little levity to the conversation. “Got your message. Wow, I didn’t know you had so much spunk. Anyway, I was glad to hear from you, even if it was just to express your hatred for me. I’ve been thinking about you...” Like I said, even if she blasts you again, you being nice and humble could easily have the effect of causing her to think and feel bad about doing that. Then she’ll probably apologize which creates another opportunity to talk.

 

You don’t fix pain that you caused overnight. But not trying to fix it at all will get neither of you anywhere.

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just when she dumped she I will not see you again and I do not want to be your girlfriend anymore, but clearly something is there to get her so pissed after 5 or 6 weeks. Okay I am gearing up for a call

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just when she dumped she I will not see you again and I do not want to be your girlfriend anymore, but clearly something is there to get her so pissed after 5 or 6 weeks. Okay I am gearing up for a call

 

Keep us posted!

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So I never did make that call had found out that she was on the rebound so just let it go. Well I just found out that the rebound situation has gone south already, and I just got a text that she wants to come over this weekend and exchange "stuff". This is two months of being without the stuff. I am freaking out does this mean anything or is it about the stuff? I have not responded as of yet.

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Say, “Hey, come on over! It will be great to see you. Also, I don’t even know which things are yours. Just let me know when to be home.”

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got weird fast I was going to answer before I went to sleep but she texted that she was at a pub near my house and we should be adults and meet and talk. Turns out she had gone to therapy that day and she was hell bent on returning my stuff cause that was how she was told she could get closure.

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got weird fast I was going to answer before I went to sleep but she texted that she was at a pub near my house and we should be adults and meet and talk. Turns out she had gone to therapy that day and she was hell bent on returning my stuff cause that was how she was told she could get closure.

 

Good grief!

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I did not want any of the stuff and really did care about any of hers, she she seeing it all the time was making her nuts. There were tears and laughter on both sides, there was kissing and pulling away at the end of the night, I do not know what to think

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I did not want any of the stuff and really did care about any of hers, she she seeing it all the time was making her nuts. There were tears and laughter on both sides, there was kissing and pulling away at the end of the night, I do not know what to think

 

I don’t know what to tell you. She seems to be really mixed up.

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So this is getting weird, About a week later I went to a bar that I rarely go to with my brother, somehow she found out and magically showed up to bitch me out, holy cow.

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So this is getting weird, About a week later I went to a bar that I rarely go to with my brother, somehow she found out and magically showed up to bitch me out, holy cow.

 

What's wrong with this girl? She doesn't want a relationship with you but she can't get past her anger and won't let things go. Did you do something really bad to piss her off, or is she just a little nuts? What did your brother have to say about it?

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nice tits or something jokingly then this woman said pay to see more, I said ya am good

 

That sounds like an ad and probably means you’ve been on porn sites. Maybe that’s what pissed her off. Still, her reaction seems very over the top. Are you sure you want this person in your life? She sounds that a rager or drama queen, or both.

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