I'm curious, I cannot tell if this man is interested or just friendly...

[Ceres]

Hi, I'm just curious if this man I have a crush on is interested. It really shouldn't matter but i guess I just want to know. He is a delivery guy to my building where I live. We have been acquainted for 3 years. All of our conversations have been small talk, initiated by him. I try to ignore the fact that i like him. I am nice to him, i open our building doors often for him because we run into each other a lot and he is often carrying heavy items. When we engage in small talk he seems like he is trying hard to either initiate the conversation and keep it going. He also laughs at what i say a lot, even though it's not me trying to be funny or anything. Even if i am walking away and it's clear he continues to talk to me lol. He also stares at me a lot and smiles, even when i am talking to others he laughs. He asks about my day and how i am. He apologizes all the time if he feels he is bothering me. I try to believe its friendly because I'm terrible at deciphering these kinds of actions. He also knows I am married....and have a 4 year old son. I hope that doesnt make me sound like a ****ty and terrible person...I dont know why I want to know if he likes me, I should not care but I do. Thanks for reading.

[PegNosePete]

Yes, he likes you.

[Mr. Lucky]

He also knows I am married....and have a 4 year old son. I hope that doesnt make me sound like a ****ty and terrible person...I dont know why I want to know if he likes me, I should not care but I do. Thanks for reading.

 

Slippery slope. Is there a reason you're looking for this kind of attention outside your marriage?

 

Mr. Lucky

[preraph]

So he may be married or otherwise taken and it's the holidays and that's the perfect time to ask "What plans do you and your family have for Thanksgiving?"

[Ceres]

I missed the opportunity to ask in a friendly way about family for Thanksgiving (I'm in Canada we already had ours lol). I'm not looking to get attention from other men but I do admit I sort of enjoy the bit of attention I get from this man, even if it isn't much. I've had a sort of a crush I guess for the 3 years I've known him. My husband and I aren't on the greatest terms unfortunately...so maybe that has sparked more of my curiosity for this guy. I was wondering if men act like this are just being friendly or if it could be something else. Not sure if it makes any difference, I am 33 he looks to be in his 40's. Thanks for not being too harsh on me for being married and wondering about all of this...