preraph Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 Yup, and that's why he's ducking the issue and acting like you're missing him. Trying to make it go away. It's going to take a clean break to make him go away. Link to post Share on other sites
Poutrew Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 I was working away for a week two weeks ago and told him I wasn't happy him staying in my place when I was away and I felt like I was just convenient to have around, so he stayed with them that week and also this week - I've hardly seen him, but I suppose this is what it'll be like from now on. He said we'd talk about it when I got back but he hasn't mentioned it since. It's me that always brings it up. He said last night on the phone he hopes I'm not missing him too much. We're due to meet up tomorrow. A friend mentioned to me we're more like friends with benefits... something I don't want to be. That is a laugh. He is using your house for convenience as a pit stop. Does he demand you make him breakfast in bed while he honors you with his presence, as well? When you see him tomorrow, tell him that in fact you are not missing him much at all, and then break up with him officially. Get your house keys back from him or change the locks, or he'll still probably be popping over after the break up for a sleep over & some chow... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Malin889 Posted October 29, 2018 Share Posted October 29, 2018 (edited) Ugh, that line about missing him is so cocky! I hope you replied with “not really” or something like that. Distance yourself for awhile and keep yourself busy. Let him get in touch with you. Let him miss you. Edited October 29, 2018 by Malin889 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted October 29, 2018 Share Posted October 29, 2018 A friend mentioned to me we're more like friends with benefits... something I don't want to be. I think that is exactly what you are, sorry to say. He has no loyalty to you, he isn't making any effort and is only staying at your house when it is convenient for him whilst he is working... He is using you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Petals23 Posted October 31, 2018 Author Share Posted October 31, 2018 Thanks Malin889, that's what I'm going to do, distance myself and try to cool things off a bit - firstly to protect myself emotionally but also because I feel he's the one who seems to decide when we see each other. Thanks again. Link to post Share on other sites
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