KatCha Posted October 23, 2018 Share Posted October 23, 2018 I extended a friendship to a man from my past, or at least kindness and he snubbed me and turned his back on it but blames me for things that he did. I did not expect a friendship, but was open to being amicable. Meanwhile, he acted childish. I was never unkind to this person, in fact it was the opposite. If this is the way he wants it, I suppose he can have it, but to hear complaining on top of it is just uncalled for. I aim to please people and those I care about so I am gone now and I truly hope he is happy with this result. There is no pleasing some people, but far be it from me that another would say I am anything but loving and kind-hearted. As if! Link to post Share on other sites
snowcones Posted October 23, 2018 Share Posted October 23, 2018 I extended a friendship to a man from my past, or at least kindness and he snubbed me and turned his back on it but blames me for things that he did. I did not expect a friendship, but was open to being amicable. Meanwhile, he acted childish. I was never unkind to this person, in fact it was the opposite. If this is the way he wants it, I suppose he can have it, but to hear complaining on top of it is just uncalled for. I aim to please people and those I care about so I am gone now and I truly hope he is happy with this result. There is no pleasing some people, but far be it from me that another would say I am anything but loving and kind-hearted. As if! I think we might need more details. Link to post Share on other sites
Malin889 Posted October 23, 2018 Share Posted October 23, 2018 What does he blame you for? Did you date, or did one of you like the other? I’m confused. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted October 23, 2018 Share Posted October 23, 2018 Think of kindness as a gift without expectations. Leave it at the door and walk away. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ronni_W Posted October 23, 2018 Share Posted October 23, 2018 , but far be it from me that another would say I am anything but loving and kind-hearted. As if! On the other hand, people do have the free-will right to think and say whatever they want...even if their perspective is distorted, or wrong, or not based on truth and all the facts. That is, he gets to complain and act childish if he wants to...so it's up to you to just keep your inner peace where he is concerned, and avoid any temptation to call him names or otherwise do to him what he has done to you. This way, you can stay loving and kindhearted no matter what, and he can keep his wrong opinions about you. Link to post Share on other sites
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