ROB Posted May 25, 2001 Share Posted May 25, 2001 Hey Scott, You know me from ICQ. I and Ira. remember? Dude I read your post below, and I really believe you should stop this and move on. Trust me, you will be happy down the road. All the problems you are having are stemming from the fact that her past has influenced you dramatically. It will always tear you apart, and the bad emotions will always overshadow the good feelings that you have had towards her. Move on man, let her be, and approach your next relationship with a different attitude. I moved on! It is getting better and better! Link to post Share on other sites
unnamed Posted May 25, 2001 Share Posted May 25, 2001 Do you still think about Ira? Was it tough to move on? I'm not sure what I want to do! I'm scared of leaving, but at the same time, I'm not so sure if I want to stay. I agree that the problem(s) I had with her past affected us greatly, and that is just one of the reasons why I am re-considering going back to her. It seems like everybody thinks I should move on... what do you think would happen if I stayed, though? Personally, I think something like what happened the other night will occur again, only worse. I'm finding this very hard... Link to post Share on other sites
ROB Posted May 25, 2001 Share Posted May 25, 2001 It seems like your relationship with he has been poisoned - meaning, there is a good chance you and her will be encountering problems down the road. I am not saying that your relationship with her is 100% doomed, but I believe there is a very good chance that the two of you will give each other hell and it is not worth the health on neither of you. I am speaking from my own experience. I don't know about you, but I realized that my emotional health is much more important than anything else. Why would you want to be with someone who brings out negative thought and emotions in you? I do think of her from time to time, but I also know that it is very unlikley that the two of us would or could be happy together. I feel better emotionally and physically too. I sleep better, no more images in my head, and I am going out with a very nice girl. And at this time I am not planning on sharing or inquiring about her sexual history. Think about it this way. If these things keep bothering you , and they have for over a year now, what are the chances that you will completely get over them. Do her a favor, and do yourself a favor. I am sure there is a girl out who is waiting for you. GO get her! I was reluctant to leave and the move I made was very difficult, but I did Do you still think about Ira? Was it tough to move on? I'm not sure what I want to do! I'm scared of leaving, but at the same time, I'm not so sure if I want to stay. I agree that the problem(s) I had with her past affected us greatly, and that is just one of the reasons why I am re-considering going back to her. It seems like everybody thinks I should move on... what do you think would happen if I stayed, though? Personally, I think something like what happened the other night will occur again, only worse. I'm finding this very hard... Link to post Share on other sites
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