Monika465r64564 Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 Hi guys. I would like to tell you my story. I have the worst ever record a person could have with women. The first girl I ever developed romantic feelings for rejected me. This was a long painful rejection. After this, I was alone for year after year after year, and it was traumatic. This year has been sheer hell. In January I met a young lady, and once again fell in love. She decided to reject me. At first we were so intimate, then she just turned around and said I don't give a **** about you. I am not good enough for women. Women always reject me. I don't know if I can go on. I am just a failure Link to post Share on other sites
Guildford Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 Any salesman will tell you that to succeed at sales you need to pitch your product to as many people as possible. You have a product to sell, yourself. Be friendly with everyone you meet, and if a lady is possibly within the range of who you would like to date, ask her out for a movie, coffee, or what ever. Look to see who bites. There are coaches for everything today, life coaches, career coaches, and dating coaches to name a few. Hire a dating coach and follow their advice. What have you got to lose? Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted October 27, 2018 Share Posted October 27, 2018 We've ALL been rejected over and over. Your problem is you shut down from it. You've got to learn not to take it that personally. Jeez, a woman can reject you because she only likes guys with blond hair or guys who remind her of her favorite uncle. You can't take it in as you are not worthy. It likely has very little to do with you. Everyone is different and likes different things in people. But you do have to avoid the pitfall of this eroding your confidence, because confidence is the thing that will get you the furthest with women. Fearlessness. It will be hard to get a woman if you are too fearful of rejection. So you have to stop assuming it's your failing. Maybe it's her failing. Maybe she only likes rough guys or she only likes tall guys or she only likes guys who make her laugh a lot or whatever. You can't be all things to all women, so be your best self but don't let women who you aren't right for make you feel you aren't right for anyone. You are. Link to post Share on other sites
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