candycone Posted October 29, 2018 Share Posted October 29, 2018 (edited) Me and ex-broke up the end of last year. She had some self-esteem issues which lead to depression. I said some stuff that she took to heart. During the year I helped her get better. Giving her tips and guidance to help her feel better about herself. She is good now she says. After that, I stop messaging her. More then a month ago she called me drunk saying she misses me and a few weeks ago called again asking about if I am seeing anyone. So, I asked her out. We had a great date it was fun and relaxing. had some little kino. we catch up on things. I walked to her car hugged a couple of times. I didn't bring anything about a relationship or past issues we had. The issue is she lives 3 hours ago for law school. Ever since I asked her out, the way she texts is different. Not as responsive. Almost like she is playing hard to get. But most of the time she is very busy with law school. Yet, she calls me on Friday or Saturday or Sunday night. And then we text a bit over the weekend. Friday she called me and then started crying put the phone and Called me back in an hour saying she was homesick and sick. I asked if she wants to see me next weekend when she is back. She said she can't, I'm here for a little more than a day and wanted to spend time with her family. I try to help her sickness by sending her some soup. Do I just gotta keep building this slowly. I understand she going through a lot of emotions right now homesick with law school. It must be challenging. But sometimes I feel like asking what does she want from me? Edited October 29, 2018 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Paragraphs and move to BBU Link to post Share on other sites
lovelymay Posted October 29, 2018 Share Posted October 29, 2018 (edited) I think you need to figure out first what YOU want. Thisndoesn’t sound healthy... Edited October 29, 2018 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Redact full quote of starting post Link to post Share on other sites
Author candycone Posted October 30, 2018 Author Share Posted October 30, 2018 I want to get back with my ex. I can ask her what she wants moving forward or I can date her and see where it goes? Link to post Share on other sites
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