mental breakdown breakup?

[wtfhappend]

so basically my now ex girlfriend broke up with me. i think she had a mental break down. it all started with her just getting agitated at every little thing that i or our older kids did,(11 n 12) the site of us watching tv, talking on the phone, doing anything even asking about her day or questioning whats wrong if she was upset. it all set her off into a screaming raised voice attitude. that you could not calm down. i thought it might be post pardum depression. i looked it up on google and it says mental breakdowns can cause people to make lots of strange decisions.

 

all n all today i tried to stop what she was doing. i was as calm as can be, but she just screamed n yelled at me and couldnt stop. her anger was just like what the hell? every little thing i said she would get more n more mad. twice she tried to storm out of the vehicle. while talking. i begged her to stay because i truly love her. for the record weve been together for 8 years and have a baby.

 

she then started accuseing me of everything that i say is a lie. that she hates her whole family who apparently i gossip about her with?, who she just cut out instantly. i was crying and asked her what i did. she said im just not what she wants anymore. shes not cheating , i already clarified that. her best friend dumped her man a few days ago, then she made my step daughter dump her little boyfriend. and now she dumped me. its insane. just watching how she was acting. veins popping from the face yelling super loud. like wtf? i asked her to calm down so many times. just made her more loud n mad.

 

she has all the symptoms of narcissism. and bipolar disorder. i could hardly get a word in. its really messed up. like ive never seen anyone act like that, a few years ago she got into a car accident n walked away with a few bruises, her family thinks she hit her head pretty bad. because its been getting worse over the years.

 

but during this mental break down. she litterly cut her brothers sisters mom n dad, my family me my daughter all out of her life, its almost like she biult a brick wall around her, her daughter, her best friend , and her best friends daughter. the baby still comes back n forth from me n her.

 

the wierdest thing is that i said please dont do this , we have a family, and she claims that her best friend is her family,

 

very confusing whats going on, her rage , i wonder what its like not to beable to control your anger.

 

the obvious thing is to move on, but really what the f just happend?

 

in simple terms from what i see. she had some issues and took them all out on me. i fear that shes mentally ill and eventually something bad will happen,

 

its just not normal to see someone act so unreasonable so ferious and with no empathy or emotion either than anger, even though she claims that shes just annoyed.

 

can anyone help me debunk whats going on here?

 

sorry for spelling errors

[d0nnivain]

Are you sure this was really out of the blue? With the new baby it might be post partum. Only a doctor can diagnose that. If all of this behavior was sudden seemingly triggered by the friend's break up, you may have to make sure all the kids are safe.

 

In a calmer moment ask her how you can help. in the short term clean the house, take care of the kids, make dinner & perhaps try to draw her a relaxing bath.

 

Get her to talk about what's bothering her. Don't just walk away even as she's pushing you.

[Normm]

Is the father of the two older kids around?

 

 

Wonder if they broke up under similar conditions.